Yeah. There seems to be a vast gulf between Mennonite churches. The one in Raleigh likely mirrors your experience in NJ. With the advent of the internet, I was flat out shocked at what all was going on in the denomination outside of my little slice of western MD and PA. I guess too many old hippies saw the pacifist designation, joined up, and ruined things.I attended a Mennonite Church in Phillipsburg NJ and discovered the pastor is gay. This could only happen in Jersey...
Speaking of which, I did pass one by an hour west of here when I was riding my bike last December. It was the middle of the week, and a lady in the traditional garb watching some kids caught my eye. I looked them up online, looked like a very recent church plant.