tinytim said:
Looking at the attributes of Love, Mercy and Grace are they for everyone or just the chosen?
If they are just for the chosen, does that mean the unchosen have a skewed view of God since they don't get to see all his attributes?
I, not being Calvinistic, believe that Love, Mercy and Grace are extended from God, but if we don't receive them, they are useless to us.
As I have stated earlier, I think that 'Love' is one of those attributes we ascribe to the essense of God or absolute Attribute of God. However those things which flow from the absolute attribute (ie. mercy and grace) are Reletive attributes of that essense. Yes, in truth they are all attributes of God, but for the sake of distinction between Absolute and Reletive attributes with regard to Theology I keep that distinction.
Ex. Scripture states that God is Love, but it does not state that God is mercy or grace. Therefore Love is the essense of God while mercy and grace are attributes of His divine essense or nature. (with respect to the absolute and relitive distinctions)
There are a few to some, who hold that God only has one kind of Love and that is His convenent love. However, this is not a view we see from the scriptures.
God's love, as His other attributes we must first understand is beyond our full ability to grasp, yet God has revealed it to us with some depth.
I will try to keep it short

and if further clarifications are needed I will expound.
We definitively know about God's covenant love for His people, that is indisputable (or at least should be). But is that the extent of God ability to love.
I believe there are distinctions of Gods love just as there is with man.
We were made in Gods image and therefore made with the compacity to love.
Now we to have a 'type' of convential Love that we ascribe as 'marriage'.
1. We are commanded (as men) to LOVE our wives as ourselves.
2. We are also commanded to LOVE the brethren. Even to prefer them above all others - world.
3. However scripture also states that we are to LOVE our neighbors (nonbrethren).
4. Yet, God does not stop there but even commands us to LOVE our enemies.
Are we to love them all with the same LOVE we give to our wives? (I HOPE NOT

raying: ). :laugh:
So if we are not to LOVE in each of the above in the same specific manner as that with and of our wives, does that mean that all other love given in not true or genuine love? Of course not!
What we see is distinctions of the aspect Love but it is still genuinely love.
NOW, with the above in mind that these are all commands of Gods to be fulfilled that we might walk in righteousness and Holiness. We are the physical representation of God (when we do these things) as Christ was at all times. Remember the scripture 'Be ye Holy as I am Holy" God has revealed to man to be in the likeness of Himself. In fact we were predestined to be conformed to the image of His dear Son, who is not only like the Father but also IS the Father in oneness. Therefore when God commands us to LOVE our enemies it is because God Himself loves even His enemies. Is not the wicked, rebellious, stubborn, and hardhearted enemies of God by their very fact they are these things? And if God ONLY loves His children (as in there is only one type or aspect of Gods love) then He should take great pleasure in dealing justice and death to the ungodly who are not His children.
But the scripture states that He takes no pleasure in the death of the wicked, and that He continuously stretches out His arms to a disobedient and gainsaying people, commanding all men everywhere to repent, these are among a multitude of others. God does not ask us to do something He Himself is not already doing. We are His workmanship made (to be made) in likeness of Him.
The next part:
God commands we are to LOVE our wives:
Col 3:19Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them
And yet Jesus said this:
Luk 14:26 If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.
So does the bible contradict itself? God forbid! No it does not.
What we see in the passages above is a disinction of love that when contrasted one love to another they appear as polar opposites. It is seen as preferential Love of one 'over and above' the other in such a distinquishing way that the only proper rendering of the preference is love and hate (loving less than) .
So we do not geniunely Love God but disinginuinely or love dishonestly our wives but our Love for God is to be far more exceedingly greater than that of EVEN our wives whom we are to love and give ourselves for just like Christ did for us. Therefore when God states "Jacob have I loved and Esau have I hated" we can know it is refering to the same manner as already seen for a couple of reasons.
Now I know some don't agree here but that is Ok, I am merely setting forth my point:
1. Scripture states that neither had done any good or evil
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1a. God does not hate without Just cause
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1b. Scripture states that God hates (loathes, detests) the 'wicked' and those who pursue it. Neither of these two had done anything, so from whence or by what Justice does God hate Esau yet (as in detest and loathe)? Therefore if God does not yet hate Esau for any evil, then this must be something OTHER THAN to specifically detest or loathe.
2. This is dealing not with whom God is angry, but chosing or prefering one over another. (regardless of if you hold Rom 9 to Election of salvation or to purpose)
There are more but this should suffice for now. Also, add to that Thayers Lexicon (1889) states with reference to the word "meneo" - "Not a few interpretors have attributed the significance to "
love less, postpone in love, or esteem to slight" (though there are a couple of passages listed to these definitions, this is shown with specific regard to the the passages of Luk and Rom mentioned above).
So God does love His creation, and even extends in common form that love to all, but God also has a specific or covenential love that supercedes or prefers above all others to whom He has chosen to ascribe it.
See, I told you it would be short :laugh: