At least Helen had the decency to answer the question I put forward. Her reason for consuming alcohol:
Helen said:
1. Because I was raised in that environment (and no, neither of my parents was a drunk!)
2. Because I like the taste of a smooth, dry wine.
3. Because we have friends who also enjoy an occasional glass of wine and when they are over I don't want to make them feel awkward. None of us has ever even been high -- at least not in the last forty or so years!
4. Because wine is a much safer relaxant for me than any medication.
5. Because God does not consider it a sin; in fact quite the reverse -- wine is a natural result of fruits. Noah made wine on purpose and he was a righteous man. Christ changed the water to wine (yeah, the real stuff! It rescued the groom from a possible lawsuit.) Paul told Timothy to have a little wine for his stomach's sake. Not grape juice -- wine.
6. Wine and beer have a proper place. The Bible warns about abuse, but not about use. In fact in a couple of places it suggests and condones use.
My reply which has not been challenged:
1. Because I was raised in that environment (and no, neither of my parents was a drunk!)
If you were raised in an environment where your parents smoked cigarettes would that influence you to be a smoker? Would that make smoking anymore permissible? Our culture we were raised in does not define us. I have counseled many teens to rise above their raising.
2. Because I like the taste of a smooth, dry wine.
Perhaps the most irrelevant point of all. As disciples of Christ we are to put aside petty personal preferences and serve out of obedience. Helen, I like to sit around the house with my family back in Hattiesburg MS where I grew up, but the Lord has called me to be far away from my family in his service. If I as a pastor did what I liked all the time my life would be a real mess and so would my church.
3. Because we have friends who also enjoy an occasional glass of wine and when they are over I don't want to make them feel awkward. None of us has ever even been high -- at least not in the last forty or so years!
Yeah, well get some new friends. If you are not living the way you should because of peer pressure then get rid of the dead weight. What kind of friends do you have who cannot realistically understand as a minister of the gospel that you may abstain? You and your husband are ministers giving in to peer pressure? UNREAL!
Do not tell me that you have been drinking and never been high! You are in no position to judge for yourself if you are high or not. A frog does not know that it is boiling to death if you raise the temperature at the rate of a degree every minute. Alcohol creeps up on you and by the time it has you it is too late. You have probably noticed the effects to some degree. If you feel any effects at all you are under the influence and you cannot drink alcohol and not feel at least some effect.
4. Because wine is a much safer relaxant for me than any medication.
Why does a minister of the gospel or a born again believer need a relaxant? Has not Christ promised to supply us with all our needs? Does not Christ give us the peace that surpasses all understanding? Did Christ not say do not worry or fear but in all things pray and God will supply all our needs? If you seek fulfillment from anything that Jesus otherwise could have supplied you that is by definition idolatry.
5. Because God does not consider it a sin; in fact quite the reverse -- wine is a natural result of fruits. Noah made wine on purpose and he was a righteous man. Christ changed the water to wine (yeah, the real stuff! It rescued the groom from a possible lawsuit.) Paul told Timothy to have a little wine for his stomach's sake. Not grape juice -- wine.
Noah? Do you really want to bring Noah into this discussion? Look where drinking got Noah: "Noah began to be man of the soil, and he planted a vineyard. He drank of the wine and became drunk and lay uncovered in his tent." Moreover, his own children did something to or with him to the extent that Noah cursed Canaan for his part in the ordeal.
6. Wine and beer have a proper place. The Bible warns about abuse, but not about use. In fact in a couple of places it suggests and condones use.
The fact remains that the Bible does not prohibit alcohol, but the Bible also does not prohibit slavery. Do you want to suggest that we should not prohibit slavery?
However, I must say Helen that I am very disappointed by your self-centered approach to drinking.
The Bible warns us to avoid the appearance of evil (1 Thess. 5:22).
The Bible also warns about causing an immature believer or a literal child from stumbling, "but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin,it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea." (Matt. 18:6)
Moreover, what fellowship does light have darkness? Alcohol is responsible for the rape and murder of numerous women every year. Alcohol is responsible for the death of innocent children every year through dwi and abuse. Alcohol is responsible for numerous failed marriages, businesses, and destroys the lives of those who abuse and consume it.
As Christians our role is to live lives of holiness and purity. If there is any doubt about whether something is right, we should err on the side of caution. To be honest with you I simply find your reasons for drinking alcohol to be in poor 'taste.'