hey now.....don't pluck out proverbs 23:31 without talking about the other verses. he's clearly talking about someone who is pursuing drunkenness.
LET ME CLARIFY: i think it is appropriate for people to abstain if it is a weakness of theirs, or if they don't want to cause another to stumble. i'm not saying its ridiculous to abstain. i am saying, however, it is ridiculous to say it is sin if someone does not abstain, but does drink responsibly, without getting drunk, and keeping in mind of others who may stumble.
LET ME CLARIFY: i think it is appropriate for people to abstain if it is a weakness of theirs, or if they don't want to cause another to stumble. i'm not saying its ridiculous to abstain. i am saying, however, it is ridiculous to say it is sin if someone does not abstain, but does drink responsibly, without getting drunk, and keeping in mind of others who may stumble.