That's obvious. I was just giving examples of the common grace and joys we all share in this life and how your premise that the normal human life we live on this planet is all there is to God's wrath. Those not saved are indeed under the threat of God's wrath and we are indeed able to look around and see the effects of sin but you have been influenced by some bizarre school of thought that has totally warped you in all areas of thought. You really need to reevaluate.
That is because you are not God and don't have any obligation to rule the universe with justice. You simply live out your role. It is much simpler for us. Why do you think we are under obligation to forgive those who wrong us if there is not in God's mind a sense of overall justice that is important to maintain? According to your same logic how can someone demand that I forgive a wrong done to me?
You give away your basic belief when you say "They deserve punishment". You are right but why did you say that? It's because you have that same God given sense of justice that God wants done in the universe. You know that sin should be punished and the scripture clearly teaches that it was put on Christ and that God has done the reconciliation that was needed. So it's because of that we are able to be forgiven by simply repenting and confessing.
Dying and rising with Christ has meaning because of what was happening when Christ did this. The judgement for sin was upon him, not us. Penal substitutionary atonement.
"I was just giving examples of the common grace and joys we all share..."
Penal substitution claims that Jesus suffers the wrath of God in our place for our sins as our substitute, so we don't have to suffer that wrath. This does not fit with the biblical description of the condition of humanity: Since Adam, we are exiled from Paradise and the Presence of God, consigned to physical death, under the Genesis 3 curses, in a world subjected by God to futility, filling the earth with corruption, we are dead in our trespasses and sins, indeed we are born children of wrath. The wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness.
These are all biblical descriptions of the condition of humanity - that the wrath of God has ALREADY been pouring out. You going to the country club does not change what the Bible says. Since the the very beginning with Adam. The hope of humanity is not avoiding God's wrath - it is too late for that. We are in a world that is already under His judgments. The hope is not avoiding death. We are already dead. The hope is resurrection from death. The New Testament has no interest in the resurrection-less gospel of penal substitution.
Sure there is common grace. There were violins playing while the Titanic was sinking. And there is a sense in which you could say that our eternal life begins now. But our life at this point is taking up our cross and following Christ. It is the cruciform life. We seek fellowship with the sufferings of Christ and conformity to his death (Philippians 3). Through many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of God. Whom the Lord loves, he scourges.
"That is because you are not God and don't have any obligation to rule the universe with justice."
No, the priority of justice is that the sinner is punished, not that the justice system punish something. When we sin against God, we do deserve punishment, but we do not burden God with an obligation to punish that he must purge himself of.
God could just let us rot in our sin forever. That would be perfectly just - to do absolutely nothing while we destroy ourselves in sin.
God needs absolutely nothing from humanity. He needs nothing from us prior to the Fall, and he needs nothing from us after the Fall. To say "God needs to punish me" is just as arrogant as to say "God needs to save me" because in both instances you are saying God needs something from you. He does not.
We forgive because God forgave us. Meaning - he raised us from death. So we can offer our offenders that God raise them from their deadness in sin. Forgiveness is the offer and provision of restoration from a state of brokenness or deficiency.
You give away your basic belief when you say "They deserve punishment". You are right but why did you say that?
Punishment does not exist for punishment's own sake. The purpose of punishment is to stop sin. I punish a murderer to stop him from murdering, to deter others from murder, and to return the sinner's sin upon the sinner's own head (retribution) in a way that will bring him to remorse and repentance. Retribution also has a limiting principle, in which the punishment cannot exceed the damage of the crime committed.
The purpose of punishment is not to restore or repair damage done in an offense. Restitution does that, which is a separate biblical priority of justice.
Dying and rising with Christ has meaning because of what was happening when Christ did this. The judgement for sin was upon him, not us.
You are making absolutely zero sense. Seriously, read back the sentences that you write. If the judgment was upon him, and not you, then you would not die and rise WITH Christ. You would not die - he died so you wouldn't have to. Death is a judgment for sin. You are saying "I went to the grocery store with my wife because my wife went to the grocery store instead of me." No, you can't go to the grocery store with your wife and instead of your wife. You have to choose. You cannot be a married bachelor, nor draw a square circle. Did Jesus die with you or instead of you. Read Galatians 2 and Romans 6 and then make your decision, whether you are with the Bible or not.