First off, when you talk about my Jesus, you must talk about Him in two ways; one as a Man, and one as God. He WAS/IS God/Man. Here is what the OT said about what He would look like in the flesh:
Isa. 53:1 Who hath believed our report? and to whom is the arm of the LORD revealed?
2 For he shall grow up before him as a tender plant, and as a root out of a dry ground: he hath no form nor comeliness; and when we shall see him, there is no beauty that we should desire him.
So in the flesh, He was no different than us. He ate, slept, ached, cried, bled, sweated, etc. What set Him apart from us was His soul. He was/is God manifested in the flesh.
In Revelation chapter 1, you can read about what He looks like now, in His glorified body. Also, you can read about what He looked like when He transformed Himself on the mountain before Peter, James, and John. In the flesh, He was the same as us, but His soul is what set Him apart. He was able to walk upon the water, He was able to touch the coffin of the widow woman's son, and bring him back to life. He was able to heal the woman with the twelve years issue of blood. He was able to give blind Bartimaues sight by anointing them with clay and spit, etc. To deny these as divine attributes, is out and out heresy. Plain and simple, point blank heresy.