I figured it was something simple like a missing letter, I just couldn't quite figure out which it was.
Thanks for clearing it up for me.
I think youth OUGHT to be doing some ministries that might make them a bit uncomfortable. Going to hospitals and nursing homes is an excellent way to get kids interested in ministering to those outside of their own social circles. If we only let them do ministries which are within their comfort zone while they are young, than what makes us think that will change when they are older? Its this mentality that I think contributes to so many grown-ups being unwilling to do any kinds of ministry that is outside what they are used to.
I don't know what you mean by "get control of" those sorts of ministries, unless you mean you think it will be beyond what they are emotionally able to handle? That very well can be true of some kids, but I think for the most part we underestimate what our kids can handle in a ministry capacity. If we were to send them to hospitals or nursing homes just to say "Hi", then yes perhaps they should be older. But we send them with the message of hope, the Gospel, and when the kids have an opportunity to help people who are worse off than themselves, than they grow through it in a very good way. BTW, Im not talking about sending kids to places like this on their own. Im talking about it being within a larger group including adults from their church.
An example in my own family is my 11 year old daughter. She's been going to nursing homes with our church for a couple years now, and its been nothing but good for her. She's also been working in the bus ministry for about that long....seeing lots and lots of underprivileged kids, and homes very different from her own, in a capacity of helping them learn about Jesus. She doesn't have any more "illusions" of what the world might have to offer her. In a small way, she already has seen the end of what the "world" has to offer. But its always in the context of being able to offer something better....the Gospel.
Id rather not see what so many youth groups have become....just social clubs for kids. Then we wonder why so many churches end up being treated as social clubs for adults. Thats what we've trained our teenagers to expect, why do we think that those same teens will grow up to think any differently about their church when they are adults?