@Twiceborn:
An item of note:
The whole time I was in IB churches from when I first believed on Christ at the age of 12 in 1978, I'd never heard of election, predestination, and calling.
Neither did any pastor I'd ever heard a sermon from, ever read from Romans 8:29-33, Romans 9, John 6 ( except for verses 37 and 40 to support "Eternal Security" ), John 10:26, John 17, 2 Thessalonians 2:13-14, Ephesians 1, Ephesians 2:10, John 3:19-20, Acts of the Apostles 13:48, rarely from the Psalms ( much less Psalms 65:4 ), never from Matthew 25:34, rarely from Matthew 24 ( that's another subject that has to do with the second coming ) never from
any passage that stated, "He who has ears to hear, let him hear", and never from any passage that included the words, "elect" or "chosen" , etc.
Rarely were passages like Matthew 13 ( the parables of the sower and the wheat and tares ) ever brought up, and if they were, it was only briefly.
1 Corinthians 1:18 was never referred to, and there was no mention of 1 Corinthians 2:6-16 ( except for verse 9 on very rare occasions, and "the things" in that verse were never developed ).
2 Corinthians 4:3-4?
No...definitely not.
Romans 10?
Not in the Bible outside of Romans 10:9-17.
All sermons began at 9 stopped without continuing to verse 18 and beyond.
Romans 11?
Not in the Bible unless the sermon was about the Gentiles being grafted in.
Ephesians 1?
Not in the Bible unless we were talking about Ephesians 1:13-14.
Regrettably, for all the talk I heard in my church ( and the sister churches I often visited ) preaching the entire counsel of God, for 25+ years I think I saw or heard maybe 10% of it even referenced or preached on.
Bible studies were focused on the same subjects over and over again and rarely, if ever, went outside the things I was taught the first 5 years I was a believer.
After 15 years I began to sense a problem and wanted the pastors to expand their teachings into other subjects that we had never covered, but they never did.
In fact, I learned more doctrine ( as well as other subjects )
outside of church during my own private studies, than I
ever did inside a church...
Which, now that I look back on it, seems strange.
Jesus told Peter, " feed my sheep", and Ephesians 4:11-16 tells us why teachers and preachers are given...
And it isn't to stop at or avoid certain passages for fear of there being contention.
Since the entire word of God is what we as believers live by ( Matthew 4:4, Luke 4:4 ), it seems I was being fed from a very limited selection.