Another comparison:
Lev 19:3
NIV
3 "'All of you must have respect for your mother and father. You must always keep my Sabbath days. I am the Lord your God.
NASB
3 'Every one of you shall reverence his mother and his father, and you shall keep My R440 sabbaths
KJV
3 Ye shall fear every man his mother, and his father, and keep my sabbaths: I am the LORD your God.
Exodus 20:12
NIV
12 "Honor your father and mother.
NASB
12 "Honor your father and your mother,
KJV
12 Honour thy father and thy mother
Ex 20:12 is not complicated. Simply NIV, NASB used the modern English for you.
The reason why I compare these two verses between Ex and Lev is because, both gives some special lessons,
1) Ex 20:12 used "khaved" which means Glorify, Honor
while Lev 19:3 used "Yareh" which means Fear when we fear God.
2) Order of Objective is different.
Ex mention father first, Lev mention mother first, which may be related to the equality between mother and father.
3) Intensity is different, Ex Honor, Lev Fear
4) Recipient of the commandments is different,
Ex: thou, Lev : Ye
In terms of 1), NIV is far away as it says "respect"
The lesson from Yareh (Fear) is much more than Respect which is often found in Confucianism too.
I think such FEAR relates to the fact that
- Mother and Father as shadow of God,in terms of creating the children
- Supplying all the needs to the children
- Discipline, teaching
- children need to obey even if there may be errors in parents doing, as they have to fear God.( God is inerrant, but parents are errant but their experience and advice should be remembered and obeyed)
- Admonition to the parents as well.
There could be a lot more teachings in this regard but I would leave it to the commentaries.