The text does not support your contention Dave. God has an autonomous free will we as humans have a God given free will.
It's Flowers that likens the way we choose something to the way God chooses something. It's his video, he made the comparison. If that is how you see it go with him. I happen to think that destroys his own argument.
Just saying there is a difference does not answer the question "is it just truths related to God’s nature and provision that people are naturally unable to understand and accept as true?" If so, why?
I don't mind repeating this but you never seem to get it.
First of all. We are human beings so our development of a decision on something is not like God does it. Unlike God, our decision making is based on proclivities in combination with everything else we hold as important as well as our knowledge base and so on. Our free will is indeed a wonderful thing and I believe we have true freedom. But when you take this to the level you and Flowers do you ignore the reality of the proclivities and the action of a person's nature, which I for the life of me cannot understand. Why would you refuse to take that into account?
You can bank on the fact that I will fix myself something to eat tomorrow. Why? Because I choose to is what you would say. I say that while that's true, the real reason is that I have a desire to obtain food which becomes powerful if I don't act on that. That is a natural desire that God has provided and it functions well enough even in our fallen world that the direct action of the Holy Spirit is not necessary to ensure I will obtain food.
But it's even more important that a person comes to Christ by faith. Again, you and Flowers say that given the right instruction we should be able to do that using our free will. I say that we all have proclivities and a nature that fights against that to the point where it is not going to happen that someone comes on their own free will unless the Holy Spirit acts on them directly.
Now, we can go around on this forever, which is what you tend to do. But just know that as much as you hate Calvinism, the fact is this view is also the view of classic Arminianism. You and Flowers are lining up against Calvinists, Arminians, Wesleyans, and Free Will Baptists. I have looked into this enough that I can produce the quotes in all those examples. This view is semi-Pelagian at the least. Not that it matters, since in my opinion, semi-Pelagians are completely orthodox but it is what it is. Just know where you stand in the range of orthodox Christian theology.
So if God does not determine our natural bent then there is nothing to say that a person could not freely trust in God.
Technically that is correct. They could, but unless something else can overcome that natural bent they will follow their natural bent. The Holy Spirit can intervene. Don't you see what you are doing? You have decided that if God doesn't cause your natural inclination in all cases then it isn't there. Our natural bent to have enmity against the things of God and wish to have our own way is real, it is there, it is part of our natural makeup which determines our own free will. Without the Holy Spirit we have no way to come back -
because we truly don't want to. The people that do not benefit from the Holy Spirit are called reprobate. If you read Bunyan, they are those who God allows to continue on in their free will. In their sad cases, God has indeed respected their natural free will.