tim said:
Hey, I was once like you!... but God blessed me by allowing me to learn from some great ministers that showed me that although I was saved, I had not allowed myself to be free from legalistic bondage that former pastors, even my dad, had chained me too.
NO Dancing
No cards
Women wearing dresses in church only
Women can't speak in church at all
No CCM
3 times a week in church makes one holy..
Those are just an example of the junk I heard growing up.
YES JUNK!
They were taught from the pulpit.. but have NO bible to back them up.
Just opinions of the preacher. Preached as Words from God!
Yes, Pastor Chappell often talked of the differences of "preferences" and
"doctrine" - stating that preferences were arrived at through much study of the scripture and solid Christian growth. Your preferences determine how aligned you are with Jesus - or how aligned you are with the world.
I pray for you. Your childlike perception has
exaggerated and magnified preferences into some kind of staunch unforgiving rule book in your head. I hope some day you heal from what was apparently a very sad childhood so you can be effective in your life and your ministry, not just a bitter confused person who twists the Christian life into some kind of "I have grace so I can sin as much as I like" situation.
Integrity and moral character are not something to scoff at, Tim. We don't have enough of it in this country anymore, thanks to liberals, the ACLU, the feminist movement, and the like. Lord willing, a revival will happen in this country and we will see many come to an altar (go ahead,
nit pick my use of the word altar, yes, it is what I said) and witness multitudes accept Jesus as Saviour. I don't doubt your salvation, that is between you and God....but I do doubt your effectiveness when you have such a weak testimony and witness in allowing your church flock to pretty much do anything that they want to under the umbrella of grace. Carte Blanche...no restrictions, no rules.
Even so, Lord, come quickly!