If Legalism has anything to do with standards than everyone in the Word and all the believers that have followed were legalists. There are very strict standards in Scripture even for believers under grace. The problem we have is that we associate grace and liberty with anarchy or anti-laws yet we exact standards on our own families. Some are family traditions that may or may not have to do with morality or have a clear biblical basis. Yet, when a preacher suggests or emphatically declares that a "standard" is the modern application of a spiritual truth we shout legalist especially if we are fond of a different fad or whatever.
Remember what Paul was dealing with. The Jews and Gentiles were coming together for the first time and the worlds were totally different. The Jews wanted to make the Gentiles like them and the Gentiles who were not big on rules fussed at the Jews for keeping the holidays and dietary laws when the Church was clearly exempt from all that.
Paul suggested that while all was lawful not all things are profitable and we have found out that the dietary laws were pretty dang healthy and while we are not required to follow them they would not hurt us to use as a nutritional guide since our standard American diet is killing us. Even Christ made the adultery rule stricter. he said you can look and say, hmm, hmm,would I like to spend the night with him/her without being guilty of adultry whereas in the OT you actually had to spend the night or hour or five minutes or whatever copulating to be an adultress/adulterer.
We are told to keep ourselves from all forms of evil. The world is getting more and more wicked and deceitful so it will take far more discernment to stay pure and holy, which we are commanded to do and to the world we will look silly and strict and to believers that do not wish to be that discerning for whatever reason, we will also look like killjoy legalists.
I wish we could just tiptoe through the daisies in some sort of Eden like field, but in reality we are in a war zone and the land is filled with mines.
Yes, the Holy Spirit should be the One teaching folks, but He also uses the Word (which many do not read often enough), wise counsel of Pastors and others (but we don't listen to them because they are legalists) and He will lead us into THE Truth on all issues. There are not many truths as some believers seem to think. The, "well that is your conviction and not mind" is not a valid statement or way to discern the truth. A lot of believers do not hear the conviction of the Spirit because of sin or because they have bought into the world's lies or because they misunderstand their liberty. We are free to do His will and His will is the same for all of His kids when it comes to morality, doctrine, standards, sanctification, etc. Yes, His will might be for me to start a church here in Texas and for someone else to start one in NY, but the truth we teach and live will be the same for us both. One mind and speak the same thing is what we are commanded to do. Why are there so many minds and so many things being spoken? They cannot all be truth especially when so many of them are mutually exclusive of the other.
There must be divisions and heresies among us that the approved made be manifest. So many who would say that they believe in absolutes speak a different tune when it comes to their likes and dislikes. Now, we have gray areas and legalism and stuff and don't push that stuff on me. Paul pushed a lot of stuff on everyone as did the rest of Scripture writers. With that attitude we better not witness because we don't want to push anything on anyone. We talk out of both sides of our mouth. We say that there are absolutes that everyone must come to in order to get to Heaven, but after that God left everything up for grabs so that everyone can do that which is right in their own eyes. Is it any wonder that the Church is weak and in chaos and the Lost think we are nuts or at best totally confused? God is TRUTH, there is no shadow or darkness in Him so that means that in His creation and our reality everything is either light or darkness and we better find out which is which and qit playing in the middle of the gray highway because we get run over by both light and darkness.
No standards do not send us to Hell, but lack of them can make our life here seem like Hell and send others to Hell as they watch us and stay confused because we have so many voices. God is not the author of confusion so guess who we are listening to if we are causing confusion? Guess who is causing it in our Churches? We ignore the Word and decide to do everything our way.
Oddly, when the Christians in the country had stricter standards that even crossed denominational lines our country was strong, people were being saved and were committed and even lost people had respect for Christians. If that is the fruit of legalism then may God grant us a bumper crop!!!
Now, in our joyous search for "liberty" and the means to not offend the lost we are a laughingstock and our country is sick nigh unto death. That does not sound like the fruit of righteousness to me. If the proof is in the pudding then the trends that the Church have followed since the sixties were curdled milk laced with arsenic.
1 Pet 2:16 As free, and not using your liberty for a cloke of maliciousness, but as the servants of God. (KJV)
2549 kakia (kak-ee'-ah);
from 2556; badness, i.e. (subjectively) depravity, or (actively) malignity, or (passively) trouble:
KJV-- evil, malice (-iousness), naughtiness, wickedness.
Isa 5:20-21
20 Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!
21 Woe unto them that are wise in their own eyes, and prudent in their own sight! (KJV)
We want ot be free to do our own thing and we have no clue as to what is right or wrong hence all the quibbling and striving over words on this board.
Heb 5:12-14
12 For when for the time ye ought to be teachers, ye have need that one teach you again which be the first principles of the oracles of God; and are become such as have need of milk, and not of strong meat.
13 For every one that useth milk is unskilful in the word of righteousness: for he is a babe.
14 But strong meat belongeth to them that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil. (KJV)
Way too many babes in the Church and some have been saved for many years.
Jer 2:8 The priests said not, Where is the LORD? and they that handle the law knew me not: the pastors also transgressed against me, and the prophets prophesied by Baal, and walked after things that do not profit. (KJV)
Many other denominations have been in this state for years and it looks like Baptists are running, not walking down the same path of judgment.
Jer 22:21-22
21 I spake unto thee in thy prosperity; but thou saidst, I will not hear. This hath been thy manner from thy youth, that thou obeyedst not my voice.
22 The wind shall eat up all thy pastors, and thy lovers shall go into captivity: surely then shalt thou be ashamed and confounded for all thy wickedness. (KJV)
And this may well be where the US will end up. We are far too rich and throw temper tantrums like fat little brats and have far to much idle time to taken up with the world's foolishness and thus our spiritual ignorance.
Jer 3:14-15
14 Turn, O backsliding children, saith the LORD; for I am married unto you: and I will take you one of a city, and two of a family, and I will bring you to Zion:
15 And I will give you pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding. (KJV)
May this become our course of action that God may grant us pastors according to His heart and not ones according to the scholarship and whims of this age.