Good Evening!
I read natters' recent post discuss about marry. His post reminds me of Christ's comment on marry in Matthew 5:31-32. Christ says, IF a wife leaves husband, then can given writing of divorcement.
There are so much debate among Christians about divorced. Many saying divorce is a sin. I agree with them, yes it is a sin.
Yet, Christ tells us, that either wife or husband have the right reason or purpose to writing down on divorcement.
Also, Christ tells us, either wife or husband can writing down the divorcement FOR the reason of commit adultery- Matt. 5:32 "But I say unto you, That whosever shall put away his wife, SAVING(except) for the cause of FORNICATION, causeth her to commit adultery and whatsoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery."
There are three things, the first of two things for the right reason to writing down divorcement: if a wife or husband, who is fornication, or commit adultery. Because, both forncation and adultery are sin.
Also third reason- if suppose you are still single or widow, going to marry a wife, who already divorced is COMMITTETH ADULTERY.
Also, there is another permission from the Lord about remarry, if a wife, who is remain faithful married her husband for short or long time till her husband dies, then she became widow. She have freedom. Also, she CAN be remarry to second husband, which NEVER divorced, fornication, adultery, never marry, widow from his first wife. - 1 Corinthians 7:39.
Often, Christians who believe in security salvation, saying, Jesus Christ is our husband as we are His wife-Church of Ephesians 5:23. So, they saying Christ shall never leave us, He always faithful and abide in us forever and ever.
Yes that is true. I agree with them.
But, the question is, can God have the right to divorce from backslidder?
Yes. In Jeremiah 3:8 says: "And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce, yet her treacherous sister Judah feared NOT, but went and played the harlot also."
This verse tells us that God was actual depart from Israel, because they forsaked God, and worshipped their own idols, and their sins.
Many Christians might saying, well, The Old Testament is not apply to us as Church today, that is a different dispensation and conditional salvation. As they saying, we are now under the age of "Grace".
Before I discuss about divorce, I want to show you few verses in the Old Testament, that God was actual did depart from a backslidder.
In 1 Samuel 16:1 says: "And the LORD said unto Samuel, How long wilt thou mourn for Saul, seeing I have REJECTED him from reigning over Israel? fill thine horn with oil, and go, I will send thee to Jesse the Bethlehemite: for I have provided me a king among his sons."
When God sent Samuel, the prophet to anoint Saul to became king. God is an omniscience, means He knows everything in the future, He already know Saul will be rebel against Him. Then, why does He sent Samuel to anoint Saul in the first place? Was God makes big mistake? No. I believe God have his purpose or reason. I believe God was testing on Saul, to see if he is faithful or obey Him. When after Saul was anointed to became king. He was actual did obey God. But, short later, he rebels against God, and disobey him. God was fed up with him. God sent Samuel to rebuked Saul for his self sacrifice animals without command from Samuel. Then, afterward, Samuel never come to see Saul again till his death. God told Samuel, that He REJECTED Saul, because of his disobedience.
So, God sent Samuel to another man for to anoint of the next king.
The next verse - 1 Samuel 16:14 says: "But the Spirit of the LORD DEPARTED FROM Saul, and an evil spirit from LORD troubled him."
It tells us, that the Holy Spirit departed from Saul. As God has sent an evil spirit upon Saul-I believe God allowed Satan or demon to possess upon him.
Yes, God was divorced from Saul, because of his rebel and disobedient. Is Saul a lost, and now in hell? Yes.
Christians who hold security salvation, believe that the Holy Spirit already sealed in us, and never leave us according Eph. 1:13.
I agree with Eph. 1:13. Yes, the Holy Spirit is sealed in Christians.
But, let's look at Ephesians 1:13-14 saith: "In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise. Which is the earnest of our heritance UNTIL the redemption of the purchsed possession, unto the praise of his glory."
This passage telling us, when you heard the gospel, believed and trust the gospel as you have believed in Jesus Christ, you are being sealed by the Holy Spirit-WHICH IS THE EARNEST of our inheritance UNTIL THE REDEMPTION OF THE PURCHASED POSSESSION, that means, onced the Holy Spirit is sealed in a Christian is still being sealed is the payment in the advance TILL the redemption of the purchased possession.
What is the 'the redemption of the purchased possession'? My understanding of this is speak of our salvation shall be delivery as our body all shall be changed into immortality at the rapture during Christ's coming.
Please read in Ephesians 4:30 says, "And GRIEVE NOT the holy Spirit of God, whereby(which) ye are sealed UNTO THE DAY OF REDEMPTION."
Paul warns us, do not hurt or grief the Holy Spirit, which He is sealed in you TILL THE DAY OF REDEMPTION.
Eph. 1:13-14; & 4:30 remind me of a good illustration of a person being engaged/B].
A person is being engaged to a person, that does not mean both are being guaranted to be married. Being engaged is a temporary. TO be married is not a temporary, it lasts forever. A male who is being engaged with a lady, are not yet offically that they will be married, they still are testing each other in temporary, to see if they trust each other and have surely confident each other. Till they feel ready right time to be marry.
Same with the Holy Spirit. Being sealed by the Holy Spirit, does not mean that He is always remain in us all the time forever, Being sealed by the Holy Spirit shows us, that He is engaged with us right now for a temporary.
Because Jesus Christ is NOT yet marry Church till Revelation chapter 19 at the second coming.
Why? Because, the church is still not perfect, and still builting throughout centuries of the age. Because of the individuals of the Church are still in the spiritual warfare right now.
What IF a believer stopped follow Christ, and turn away from the Lord. Can Christ leaves a believer? Yes.
King David warns of his experince testimony in Psalms 51:11 says: "Cast me NOT AWAY from thy presence; and TAKE NOT thy holy spirit FROM me."
David begs God, that he doesn't want God to leave him.
When David was sinned against God, by commit adultery with soldier's wife, and killed soldier of wife's. God was angry with him. So, God sent prophet Nathan to David, and he rebuked him. David awared that the holy spirit was actual left him, because of his sins. So, he repented of sisn to God. He asked God to restore unto him the joy of salvation. - Psa. 51:12. Then, the holy spirit returned back to david again and restored him.
Yes, a believer could lose salvation IF a believer decides turn away and doing wicked.
In Revelation chapter 17 and 18 warn us, that we do not commit adultery or fornication with Babylon. God commands us that we ought be virgin and be holy life. That mean, we must be separated from the world, do not be compromising with the world. OR, if we continuing compromising with the world, God will judge us- Rev. 18:4. God tells us, that we must come OUT of the world.
Jesus Christ is not yet marry to the Church TILL when Christ shall come again to receive the Church in Revelation 19:7-9.
Also, Christ is not yet marry to the Church, till Babylon be judged first- Rev. 19:1-3.
Obivously, there are much overwhelming proofs in the Bible that there are conditional salvation with warnings. Yes, a believer could lose salvation, IF a believer turn away from the Lord, and remain in wicked life.
Sorry, this post is a VERY LONG! But, it is worthy to discuss about salvation.
In Christ
Rev. 22:20 -Amen!