Made an attempt to reconcile

[evangelist6589]

This is great news! I'm so glad. God hates divorce. Evan, I'll be praying for you both. It takes two to reconcile, but only one to start the process.

I'm really sorry to hear this. Do everything you can to be there for her.

I can only try

 

[Yeshua1]

I can only try

Remember that God wants this to happen, evn more than you do!

 

[Earth Wind and Fire]

Except, in this case, you need to define "failure." Is that one attempt? Trying to call, but she never answers? Asking her out to dinner, but she says no? Sending an email that she never responds to? Define "success," as well as "failure."

For me, success would be praying every day about it; doing things to let her know I love her; and in a few days, or a few years, or a few decades, God softens her heart, she forgives me, and we live out the rest of our lives together. "Failure" would be praying every day; doing things to let her know I love her; but one or the other of us dies without having actually been reconciled.

So how do you define these two outcomes?

Brother, that's very hard

 

[Yeshua1]

I can only try

Remember the Prophet and his prostitute wife, how God wanted him to keep going after her!