Sometimes there is an uncomfortable route in learning new things here on this board and having to admit one is wrong. I had read John of Japans threads for years, and did not realize he was a fundamentalist. His posts were/are Biblically correct. At the same time, I never bothered to read anything about the group, as I dismissed them as a group of nuts more interested in people not wearing short skirts and dancing than telling others about Jesus.
Then a while back, I made a comment on a thread relating to this subject, and to my shock, John was one and let me know it. I wanted to crawl into the nearest hole. Since then, reading their doctrine, and getting to know some, I was very wrong. I do not agree with some of their ideas about do's and dont's, but they are brothers and sisters in Christ, and are very fervent about being a Christian. It is a blessing to have them telling others the Gospel.
While I agree with this in principle I don't want niceties (which are good) to corrupt the facts.
The fact is that there is a good reason WHY you once thought all IFB folks were narrow minded, backwards people. Because so many are and because so many of us who have encountered many of them have seen that first hand.
The lesson you learned in encountering John is that not ALL of them are that way. That is a good and accurate lesson.
But it does not change the fact that many are out there smearing the name of fundamentalism with stupidity, hatefulness, hero worship and Phariseeism.