The BPNew article is one of the worst forms of journalism out there. I highly recommend two response pieces:
http://blogs.lifeway.com/blog/edstetzer/2009/02/friday-is-for-friends-16.html
http://www.biblicalrecorder.org/post/2009/02/13/Unfair-Unbalanced-and-Unacceptable.aspx
I believe Pastor Mark Driscoll is a fine Christian leader who is leading a tremendous church that is taking the Gospel far into a culture often neglected by Christianity. He is seeing people changed for the glory of God too.
Pastor Mark's tough talk isn't for cry-baby, culturally concealed Christians who sit in their ivory towers of supposed purity and haven't encountered the reality of a Gospel in a culture of paganism. He is straight, direct, and to the point about issues that affect those outside of the Gospel. That said, in listening to Pastor Mark you can't but help hearing his compassion for his people and his unabashed pursuit for the glory of God.
He speaks directly about some things and particularly about sexuality. I don't know what "appropriate taste" is because I think varies significantly from person to person. Do I believe Pastor Mark has crossed certain lines of "taste"? I don't know. Some things he says make me crazy (mostly because of his hardline stance) but I appreciate his willingness to say them in a context where people around him need to here it.
When you are talking to someone who has been involved in a hard life of acting like a regular, non-Christian person and has indulged in the sins of the flesh there is a necessary reality that we should confront them with. Just my thoughts.
I really respect Pastor Mark Driscoll. I'm not a hardcore Calvinist, but I deeply appreciate his willingness to live by his calling and reach people who would otherwise be spurned by religious Christians.