No banning from me.....

[Scarlett O.]

You may recall or you probably don't.....

I posted a few days ago that I would be banning the usual suspects who do nothing but incessantly fight and scratch and bite over the same old garbage day after day ad nausem and tattletale ad nausem.

I won't be. One regular member approached me and told me that as a female, I have no right to moderate men. And that it is possible to do what they are doing and still going out and evangelize the lost..

I was told that I just didn't understand how men talk to each other. So I deleted the post in humiliation.

I'll leave the banning the male moderators.

But I was right. Our site says in the top left hand corner - "A Christ Centered Community".

Do you believe that?

 

[Deacon]

Scarlett, we appreciate the work you have performed.
You are not moderating men, you are moderating the BaptistBoard.
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[JonC]

You may recall or you probably don't.....

I posted a few days ago that I would be banning the usual suspects who do nothing but incessantly fight and scratch and bite over the same old garbage day after day ad nausem and tattletale ad nausem.

I won't be. One regular member approached me and told me that as a female, I have no right to moderate men. And that it is possible to do what they are doing and still going out and evangelize the lost..

I was told that I just didn't understand how men talk to each other. So I deleted the post in humiliation.

I'll leave the banning the male moderators.

But I was right. Our site says in the top left hand corner - "A Christ Centered Community".

Do you believe that?

We moderate content. This has nothing to do with the gender a member claims to be.

I get that arguments can get heated. And I believe we should allow a certain amount of heat in the kitchen. But there has to be limits as this is a Christian board.

I was glad to see you back, @Scarlett O. We need the moderation and you are level headed and reasonable (I am often not).

I would just ignore the comment not to ban men as there are always odd opinions out there. I seriously doubt I could get out of a ticket by using that one on a female police officer.

 

[Scarlett O.]

.Thank you @Deacon and @JonC. I am grateful for the perspectives.

 

[KenH]

We moderate content. This has nothing to do with the gender a member claims to be.

I get that arguments can get heated. And I believe we should allow a certain amount of heat in the kitchen. But there has to be limits as this is a Christian board.

I was glad to see you back, @Scarlett O. We need the moderation and you are level headed and reasonable (I am often not).

I would just ignore the comment not to ban men as there are always odd opinions out there. I seriously doubt I could get out of a ticket by using that one on a female police officer.

Hear! Hear!

 

[Reynolds]

You may recall or you probably don't.....

I posted a few days ago that I would be banning the usual suspects who do nothing but incessantly fight and scratch and bite over the same old garbage day after day ad nausem and tattletale ad nausem.

I won't be. One regular member approached me and told me that as a female, I have no right to moderate men. And that it is possible to do what they are doing and still going out and evangelize the lost..

I was told that I just didn't understand how men talk to each other. So I deleted the post in humiliation.

I'll leave the banning the male moderators.

But I was right. Our site says in the top left hand corner - "A Christ Centered Community".

Do you believe that?

I am a member of a Christian organization that evangelizes in public places. Only men can be members. We meet and among other things, bitterly squabble about politics, doctrinal issues, and about anything else you can think of. We still love each other. We still go out and evangelizes and win souls together. Men can argue quite heatedly and not take it personal.

 

[Reynolds]

We moderate content. This has nothing to do with the gender a member claims to be.

I get that arguments can get heated. And I believe we should allow a certain amount of heat in the kitchen. But there has to be limits as this is a Christian board.

I was glad to see you back, @Scarlett O. We need the moderation and you are level headed and reasonable (I am often not).

I would just ignore the comment not to ban men as there are always odd opinions out there. I seriously doubt I could get out of a ticket by using that one on a female police officer.

I Tim 2:12 says what it says. Do we let culture define our theology or do we let Scripture define it?
V13 makes it plain that this is a continual command. It was not a command for a single moment in time.

 

[Deacon]

I am a member of a Christian organization that evangelizes in public places. Only men can be members. We meet and among other things, bitterly squabble about politics, doctrinal issues, and about anything else you can think of. We still love each other. We still go out and evangelizes and win souls together. Men can argue quite heatedly and not take it personal.

(1) In this forum, both men and women participate with equal status. A participant has a choice whether they want to reveal their gender or not.

(2) This isn't a men's locker room. These "squabbles" that you mention would would not happen in a variety of different settings.

(3) The close relationship we share here on the BaptistBoard is an illusion; most of us have never seen each other or heard each other.
Subtile comments, heated conversations, sarcasm, and personal insults take on a whole different meaning in the absence of the ability to see each other.

(4) If you don't want a woman to moderate you, insure that you do not need to be moderated.

Rob

 

[JonC]

I am a member of a Christian organization that evangelizes in public places. Only men can be members. We meet and among other things, bitterly squabble about politics, doctrinal issues, and about anything else you can think of. We still love each other. We still go out and evangelizes and win souls together. Men can argue quite heatedly and not take it personal.

Stop being stupid, you ignorant.... (kidding)

I get your point. I'm retired military and we didn't always (read "rarely") miss an opportunity for a good insult. But we were like brothers.

That said, I do not see that type of comradery on an online forum. It's different face to face, when you know one another.

 

[Reynolds]

(1) In this forum, both men and women participate with equal status. A participant has a choice whether they want to reveal their gender or not.

(2) This isn't a men's locker room. These "squabbles" that you mention would would not happen in a variety of different settings.

(3) The close relationship we share here on the BaptistBoard is an illusion; most of us have never seen each other or heard each other.
Subtile comments, heated conversations, sarcasm, and personal insults take on a whole different meaning in the absence of the ability to see each other.

(4) If you don't want a woman to moderate you, insure that you do not need to be moderated.

Rob

I Tim says what it plainly says. You just wrote multiple paragraphs to justify your not being willing to follow the plain commands of Scripture.
Is ITin 2:12 hard to understand? Hard to comprehend that Verse 13 makes it plain that it was not a cultural command, but a command based on the nature of the genders?

 

[DaveXR650]

I Tim says what it plainly says. You just wrote multiple paragraphs to justify your not being willing to follow the plain commands of Scripture.
Is ITin 2:12 hard to understand? Hard to comprehend that Verse 13 makes it plain that it was not a cultural command, but a command based on the nature of the genders?

Please tell me that you know @Scarlett O. and you are just pulling her leg.

 

[Scarlett O.]

Please tell me that you know @Scarlett O. and you are just pulling her leg.

We don't "know" each other except for the BB. And that's not truly knowing as in real life.

These are his beliefs. I've known that and I don't sweat it. He was not the one who approached me about it.

 

[Reynolds]

Please tell me that you know @Scarlett O. and you are just pulling her leg.

I Tim 2:12

 

[DaveXR650]

We don't "know" each other except for the BB. And that's not truly knowing as in real life.

These are his beliefs. I've known that and I don't sweat it. He was not the one who approached me about it.

I have, based on some of the things you have said in the past, sort of thought that maybe you are a little sensitive about being a woman. I had no idea of the attitudes of some of the folks on here and I sincerely apologize.

When I was still working I was in a hospital so having a woman supervisor is nothing to me and it has never occurred to me to try to apply 1 Timothy 2:12 to something outside a church service anyway. As a matter of fact, I don't even think it means what some of these guys think it means in church, but that's just me.

A full and proper discussion of such attitudes would require that the moderators disappear for a while so that's all I will say, except that an attitude that a female moderator is somehow a violation of Paul's teaching in 1 Timothy 2:12 may be the dumbest thing I have ever seen on this site.

 

[Piers Plowman]

I Tim 2:12

Serious question: 1 Tim 2 also forbids women from "broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array"-- how exactly would you enforce that? Badgering any women in the street wearing earrings?

 

[Reynolds]

Serious question: 1 Tim 2 also forbids women from "broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array"-- how exactly would you enforce that? Badgering any women in the street wearing earrings?

I T 2 is not pertaining to women on the street.

 

[Jerome]

I T 2 is not pertaining to women on the street.

EVERYWHERE is the context, in the passage. (v. 8 Paul wants men to pray "in every place"). Godly women in modest apparel (v. 9) performing good works (v. 10) is not a just-in-church thing.

v. 12, Young's Literal Translation, she is not to rule her husband. Marital relationship is the context. Two are to be one flesh. Thus the reference to Adam and Eve that follows immediately.

 

[canadyjd]

You may recall or you probably don't.....

I posted a few days ago that I would be banning the usual suspects who do nothing but incessantly fight and scratch and bite over the same old garbage day after day ad nausem and tattletale ad nausem.

I won't be. One regular member approached me and told me that as a female, I have no right to moderate men. And that it is possible to do what they are doing and still going out and evangelize the lost..

I was told that I just didn't understand how men talk to each other. So I deleted the post in humiliation.

I'll leave the banning the male moderators.

But I was right. Our site says in the top left hand corner - "A Christ Centered Community".

Do you believe that?

Well, I’m glad you are here, as are many others. I appreciate your insight into scripture and your perspectives.

I like to tell folks they are welcome to their beliefs, but their beliefs don’t necessarily affect me at all.

Don’t ever feel humiliated by the ignorance of others. The BB is not a church

peace to you

 

[kyredneck]

sort of thought that maybe you are a little sensitive about being a woman.

BINGO!

 

[DaveXR650]

BINGO!

Ky. You took a partial quote which completely changed the meaning of what I was saying. There's an opening for you at CNN.