I agree.
My question is given the number of young people leaving our churches, are most baptist churches doing something wrong with their children, youth, and college and career ministries?
I believe yes, but that's not the whole reason young people are leaving.
First - from what I've seen, evangelicals in general boil conversion down to praying a prayer, and Baptists are no different. And most times that I've seen, it's totally independent of the message of the cross. Now, I don't say that to derail the thread. It's simply the truth as I have observed churches.
Second, also from observation, after a so-called "prayer of salvation", most people aren't being taught biblical doctrine in their churches. The substance of teaching is bible stories and behavioral badgering.
So there's nothing to grab somebody and hold on to them. And when younger people encounter that type of surface-level appeal to the flesh, it's only gonna keep them for so long.
But before anyone gets the idea that I only want to blame leadership...
I mean why are so many people not being properly formed into mature Believers in the first place?
It's not only the responsibility of the Holy Spirit (and church leaders) to form people into mature believers, it's the responsibility of every believer to be led. and many simply won't be.
take a good look at the parable of the soils, from the perspective that the second and third soils represent genuine believers, and you will truly understand why believers are not maturing - and many are falling away.