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We put our trust in God for our salvation. How do you, Winman, know that you are saved? It's the same way as we do. We have full assurance of our salvation because of what Christ has done for us. We believe in Jesus Christ. As you said you agreed with, we will persevere because of God. How do you know you are elect? Because we are saved. Remember Christ's words in John 6 that, "All that the Father gives me will come to me" The elect are the ones that come to Jesus. Those that are elect will come", and whoever comes to me I will never cast out."
I trust in God, not my "free will" for my salvation and the keeping of my salvation. Arminians depend on their free will to keep their salvation.
I trust a God who loves everyone and wants every man to be saved. I know this includes me.
Your God does not love everyone and has no desire to save the vast majority of men. You have no way of being sure he loves you, he may very well hate you. In fact, there is far more chance he hates you than loves you.
You might simply be going through the motions, deceiving youself you are elect. If God doesn't love you, you are wasting your time.
I would find it almost impossible to have assurance if your doctrine is true.