IBF,
This is my longest post in BB history. I hope you will read it all. I would never write something this long and expect someone to read it but since only you, Gunther, and I have particpated in this thread (for which I am very thankful) I hope you will bear with me. Gunther, you won't miss anything by skipping it since you and IBF are taking this discussion along a different line.
You got me all wrong here. I don't sit around judging other peoples salvation, I don't recall questioning a single person. It has nothing to do with making laundary lists of sins in which you are not saved, if I did that I would never pass my own list. Nor do I presume to know who is saved and who is not, God only knows. I give most people the benefit of the doubt.
You say you agree with me about obedience? You say,
I agree that trusting in Christ is as you say "actialized in obedience". But what kind of obedience?
At the end here I am going to have to ask this question back at you. If you agree with me then what kind of obedience are you expecting? But first I want to look at your examples.
I just noticed that I spelled "Actualized" wrong in my post and now the spelling has been copied via qoute for a few posts
Is it only "actialized" by people who attend church faithfully?
In a sense . . . Yes. To trust in God is to Love Him. To trust Him is to seek out that very thing your Trust, to learn about Him, worship Him, share in His supper that reminds of His deed, and to believe the Bible when it is commanded to meet together.
Now before you start asking "how many weeks in a row", I am saying that is missing the point. I don't attend Church every time the doors are open. I missed yesterday because I have been having trouble sleeping at night (with my wife out of town), so I took a sleeping pill (first time in my life) and my eyes didn't open until 12:44, 1 minute before our church gets out! So that night I was planning on going (which I usually don't because it is hard with our 18th month old who is now out of town) and instead I got a call from a friend who I haven't seen in a while who wanted me to go to borders. I went to borders. I don't mind missing church because I don't get saved by racking up points, I knew it was more important for me to see my friend. You might be saved if you went once a month . . . You might be saved if . . . I am not advocating then we can tell if someone is saved or not by any manner of attendance. I am just saying it is a one litmus test (one among many) about how much a believer wishes to learn and worship God, and how much a believer wishes to learn and worship God is a good indicator of how much He trusts in God. I knew a guy who NEVER went to church. He gave me some line about thinking the apostles saying we should meet because they knew we would need support (but he didn't need any of course). Well you might be suprised to find that I didn't even write him off. He might be saved. But judging from his actions in life (not the church thing, I didn't know about that), and then finding out about the church thing, I told him about Jesus. Yea, I thought it wouldn't hurt to share the gospel as I am not sure he is saved. I share the gospel with my own family who have been saved for decades because it doesn't hurt to hear it again, so it is no offence to this guy if he was a true believer.
I believe wishing to meet together to learn about God and worship him demonstates that we actually have trusted our life to Him.
Is it only "actialized" by people who quit smoking after they are saved or get rid of other
bad habbits they had before they were saved?
I don't believe smoking in itself is a sin. Just a bad idea. Diddo on too much McDonands, not wearing your seatbelt in the backseat, or twoo much Pepsi.
Is it only "actialized" by people who attend give faithfully to their churches?
Yes. Before I start this one, I want you to know that I don't believe the tithe as a strict 10% is carried over into the New Covenant Believers. I believe Christians our commanded to help the needy and poor, look after the widow and orphain, or generally support the advance of the gospel in the world. I believe the NT church is the best place to pool the resources, and that those who look after your spiritual health are worthy of sharing in your material belongings (in other words, pastors should be paid if possible). I believe that if you see someone on the street who needs help you can give, you should give it. If family members or friends, or others are in need, you should help (especially other believers). I think for most Christians in America, to only give 10% is to be rather stingy in this country where the poverty level is a fortune for those in Africa.
Do we always need to give, to be saved. No. No. No. We are saved by trusting in Christ. But wouldn't it be strange if you were saved of all your sins but won't give $5 for someone to eat. Wouldn't it be strange if you truly believed the gospel of Jesus Christ, but weren't interested in paying money to others so they could spread the gospel so others could believe in the gospel and be saved. Do you truly believe it if you don't care if others do??? When I hear someone say, "I believe in God and Jesus but it is okay if he doesn't", I really question exactly what he believes because IT IS NOT OKAY! that this third person doesn't.
We are not saved by giving. Giving is actualized obedience to truly trusting. Would you believe for a single picosecond (1/1000 of a nanosecond) that I loved my mom if I kept telling her I loved her but left her outside in the snow and wouldn't let her in my house. Does this mean I love her because I brought her inside. No!!! I brought her inside because I love her. It is actualized loving . . . if you will.
To finish off, I haven't given to the church for a few months. I don't have the money. A couple of finacial setbacks and now I need to find money I don't have. This doesn't bother me (too much, it does when I see those truly in need) because God is not asking me to give 10% to prove anything, he is asking me to give what I can to help real people in real situations.
James 2 gives this exact situation, telling your brother to be well but not giving anything to his need, then your religion is worthless.
Jesus gives the exact parable, telling people if they didn't help those in Need, they didn't know Jesus. He didn't say you are saved by helping those in need. You are saved by knowing Jesus. He said that those who know Jesus would help people in need. That is what it means to KNOW JESUS!
Is it only "actialized" by people who are obedient 100% of the time . . . . . How about people who are obedient 10% of the time? No that is much to little. That person definitely could not be saved - right?
My answer here is 0.0000000001% or smaller. It takes the faith of a mustard seed. It takes just the smallest true belief in resting your salvation to the Lord. We all sin and probably sin more then we think. Spurgeon believed we never left our knees in prayer without sin!
You are confusing the issue. I am not arguing how much faith we need. I am not Paul (yet . . .just kidding), I am not Jeremiah (though I want to be). And even these two at time lacked and sinned agaist God. I am just saying that those moments they did exercise faith, it was actualized in obedience. And all of their obedience is no credit to them, it was the outworking of true trust in their God. I am saying there is no reason to seperate obedience from trust. The times I sin (and oh I do), I show my lack of faith in God. Yet still saved I am, because I do trust in Him, and my life demonstates more obedience the more I grow in trust.
You see this again is the problem with the Lordship and Means views - it leaves these questions in the mind a believer -
How righteous must I be to obtain eternal life?
How much sin will cost me my salvation?
I will answer your second two questions first. How righteous? None of your own, that is for sure! You will need to trust in Jesus Christ to save you from your sins. Whatever righteousness that flows from is whatever it is, and we agree that it doesn't save you. How much sin . . . my salvation? There is no sin that can cost you your salvation. You are not saved by not sinning, but by trusting. All of your sin is accounted for. The times you trust in Jesus you will not sin, and it only takes a mustard seed of that faith to save. Jesus said, "Those who love me will keep my commands." You might say, we love Jesus all the time, and we can not keep those commands. I say, we don't love Jesus all the time. We betrey that we don't when we don't keep his commands. That is why we are still being saved. That is why it is a process that will only be finished on the "day of the Lord"! I expect more for my own salvation, when I WILL love Jesus every second of every day, and you better believe I will be being obedient. Does this mean I am not saved. No, salvation does not require perfect love, or love 100% of the time. Indeed, it is love of a mustard seed (well, not exactly Biblical but I'm trying).
Like we have said previously, we agree that all true believers will produce fruit. All true believers will be obedient to Christ. But where the question comes in is how much and how visible?
Well good we agree

I feel like you haven't answered you own assertion. You say all true believers will produce fruit. I agree. You says how much and how visible, I say at least something!!!! How visible, WHO CARES!!!! But it certainly will be visible when my brother sees someone in need. He is demonstating a lack of love for God by not helping his brother. It doesn't mean he is not saved, it just means he needs to be saved more!!! (call it glorified if you wish). He needs to trust in God more.
I believe all believers will produce fruit because as obedience is "actualized trusting", all "who trust" (ie all who believe) are beling obedient by definition. I believe that believers will produce more and more fruit, simply because I believe that is what the Bible teaches, not because of great will power, ect, but because it is God's plan and Him working in you!
Okay, now that I am finished with my longest post in BB history, I have to ask back at you, if
I agree that trusting in Christ is as you say "actialized in obedience". But what kind of obedience?
is not the kind of obedience listed above, then what kind of obedience is it?
Pete
P.S.
you wrote
And it was also just as likely that their was someone sitting on their couch, and while they had not realized their true potential for Christ yet, they were completely trusting in him for their salvation and they were saved and on their way to heaven.
which is rather funny because I spent ALL DAY on Saturday sitting on the couch watching College Football. About 8 straight hours at least.