You were not properly catechized in Catholic teaching. I don't fear anything. Especially not purgatory. I don't fear commiting mortal sin because I know what that is and if I do I have recource to confess and be forgiven. I am thus assured of my salvation. Yet as can be seen in all the churches not just catholic sexual preditors are found in all denominations. all with relative ease. What causes this is sin and sinners. Not the denomination.
Let's put things into perspective.
You were born only a few year after Vatican II came into existence.
I was
born again just a couple years after that.
I had already lived a much longer life than you. My experience with the Catholic church was one that you had never had. I still have much of the mass memorized in Latin. With Vatican II, those things changed. Even a new Catechism was put into place.
Though you were born in California you were raised in Africa. Things are done differently there. Even the RCC, if you had the chance to observe it, practices its faith differently there. Remember I am a missionary and I have traveled extensively.
You only learned of the RCC recently, after many changes were made.
I was catechized long before you were ever born. And it was properly.
Missing mass on a Sunday was a mortal sin. It was taught as a mortal sin. You can't deny that, because you weren't there, and did not live in that generation or even under that catechism. It didn't take all that much to commit a mortal sin. We used to discuss that a lot.
You can't judge what you don't know. I did fear purgatory as a child. I also feared hell. Those fears were real. I knew what purgatory was. What you don't understand is its theological implications today according to the Word of God. When I present those then you act as if I don't know what purgatory is. Purgatory denies the sufficiency of the blood of Christ. Purgatory suggests that Christ didn't have to die at all for our sins. It is a denial of the gospel. Now tell me that I don't understand what purgatory is, because I came to those conclusions after I was saved. I came to those conclusions because I know and understand what the Bible teaches.
I will say again, the RCC is a religion of fear, and this time I will add: it is a religion of ignorance. In spite of the catechism the priests keep the people in ignorance of the real truth of the Word of God.