When I was in college, my friends who practiced "giving up" something for Lent always consisted of one of the following:
- giving up the "f" word for a few weeks
- giving up smoking, drinking, or chocolate for a few weeks
- or giving up fornication for a few weeks
Obviously, because they weren't observing Lent correctly nor viewed salvation/Lordship correctly, I never had any college friends who made it.
There was never any mention of genuine sacrifice of time to deeply reflect on their own sin and repentance.
I've always thought of a true Lent as being sort a long term fasting from something that you SHOULD be able to - in good conscience - pick back up later. For example, one might want to forgo reading the newspaper, watching TV, or scrap-booking for Lent and in place of that time, spending EXTRA time of reflection/prayer/and seeking the Lord.
These things are not a sin, so one could pick it back up later.
I don't think anything is wrong with practicing Lent, if it is done correctly.
of mediation of our sinful selves, but is an extra time during a particular special time of the year.
It should be an addition to what we are already doing.