In all intellectual honesty, I do not think that Cals and Non-Cals are as far apart as the "heat" of our "debates may sometimes suggest. One point here, often discussed, the concept of regeneration is this.
The concepts may be, in the end, very similar. However, the major differences lie in the "how" and the "why" of regeneration. But, I've always said that the best of Arminians still argue for some type of work on God's part to make the sinner aware of their need of Him.
Tha Cal believes that it is a grace extended at a particular moment in which to make alive the person, and as a result, faith is then a secondary gift granted for the "believer" in order that they may believe.
Perhaps. I tend to be a bit more in line with the Puritans here. The Puritans thought that there could be a series of awakenings. Now, I do think the "lightning bolt" thing can and does happen. But, I also think that there are many cases where the regenerating work of the Spirit takes a period of time--sometimes very long.
I, not speaking for all non-cals, remain convinced that this (gift or grace) of being able to have faith and/or believe is granted to all men everywhere.
Of course, I don't agree. The challenge that I see in this idea is that the Bible says some very damning things about the heart of man. To my knowledge, never does it say that "out of the heart comes faith." The "virtues" of the heart of the natural man are always listed as murder, lust, etc.
My lack of faith in the human heart (which I derive from Scripture) does not give me any confidence in man's ability to be good, do good, or choose God.
In another post, you mentioned the book by Keathley talking about the sinner being in critical condition. As respected as Keathley is, I think his assertion (as you've reported it) completely misses the mark. Why? The Bible says in Genesis 6:
the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intention of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. This passage clearly places the cause of the wickedness of man in man's heart--a heart that intends and thinks only evil continually. Genesis 8 tells us the situation of man has not changed because of the flood:
the intention of man’s heart is evil from his youth. So man has not changed. Instead, God has taken it upon Himself to demonstrate His grace (common grace) to all men in that He does not destroy them
en masse.
Furthermore, Jeremiah 17 describes the heart by saying:
The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it? The word translated by the ESV as "desperately sick" has been translated "desperately wicked" in other translations. The root idea of this word is sickness...but it is an incurable sickness. It is actually used of David's son that he had with Bathsheba. God afflicted the son so that he became "sick." The sickness, based on the use of the word, is incurable and, generally, suggest "as good as dead."
In Matthew 15, Jesus says:
[18] But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person. [19] For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.
The desperately wicked, only evil continually heart is the problem. When one gets to Paul and sees his description of man as "dead" it is easy to understand, for it conforms to the rest of the Bible.
So, man is not in critical condition. He is already dead.
Blessings,
The Archangel