tinytim said:I was actually talking about Bathseba... (remember David was married also to Saul's daughter when he had the affair, )
Sounds like you're blaming the woman here!
I think it is highly likely that Bathsheba felt pressured. That possibly mitigates her responsibility a bit. After all, David was the monarch.
Good luck on refusing that one without death. Hey, if he was willing to commit adultery and to kill the husband later--maybe he was an intimidating figure to Bathsheba.