if you want to require people to be unscriptural, and stopping them form obeying God then do it, but they're fools for it, and you've stopped people from being obedient to God.So a church should not have you go thu a membership class before joining and or being baptized. and of course you would insist on being baptized in a river. And while being baptized (before going under) the pastor should not ask you to say anything, and of course the church should not require you to wear a black baptismal gown (for modesty sakes)...