It is my fault for not making myself clear. Obedience from the heart in my system of thought is the inseparable to regeneration as described in 2 Cor. 4:6 and John 17:3 whereby the "substance" of saving faith - the saving knowledge of Christ - which is the basis for "hope" (Heb. 11:1) is what God imparts by a divine fiat or act of creation (Mt. 16:17; 2 Cor. 4:6) and it is that REVELATION within or that internalized REVELATORY KNOWLEDGE is eternal life.
The difference between you and I is that you believe the fallen heart or old heart is enabled by the gospel to receive it, whereas I believe God does not enable the old heart to believe but by direct divine revelation of Christ to the soul of man IS eternal life or regeneration and creation of a new nature or new creature created in "righteousness and true holiness" which is the servant of righteousness. Heart obedience to the gospel is regeneration in my system of interpretation - 1 Thes. 1:4-5; Jn. 17:2-3; 2 Cor. 4:6
You remind me of what Harry S. Truman once said,
If you can't convince them, confuse them.
Well, let me say, I find nothing you say convincing at all.
I actually understand what you are saying, but I believe it is easily refuted. The day of Pentacost clearly shows your view wrong.
On the day of Pentacost, did God supernaturally regenerate the 3000 who were saved and give them the ability to understand the Galilaean language that Peter, the apostles, and the 120 disciples spoke in?
NO, that is not what happened at all. We are not told of any supernatural work performed on these 3000 unbelievers. NOTHING.
It was upon Peter, the apostles, and the 120 disciples that God poured out his Spirit and gave them the supernatural ability to instantly speak in I believe at least 16 different languages.
Acts 2:4 And they were all filled with the Holy Ghost,
and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance.
Again, God did not regenerate the unregenerate unbelievers at Pentacost, he performed a supernatural work on the believers only.
Now Peter, the apostles, and the disciples could easily speak to these Jews from many different nations in their native language.
Acts 2:6 Now when this was noised abroad, the multitude came together, and were confounded,
because that every man heard them speak in his own language.
7 And they were all amazed and marvelled, saying one to another, Behold, are not all these which speak Galilaeans?
8 And how hear we every man in our own tongue, wherein we were born?
9 Parthians, and Medes, and Elamites, and the dwellers in Mesopotamia, and in Judaea, and Cappadocia, in Pontus, and Asia,
10 Phrygia, and Pamphylia, in Egypt, and in the parts of Libya about Cyrene, and strangers of Rome, Jews and proselytes,
11 Cretes and Arabians,
we do hear them speak in our tongues the wonderful works of God.
Some might try to argue that God supernaturally gave these Jews from many nations the ability to understand Galilaean, but the text clearly shows the gift was poured on believers only, and that the gift was to speak in a tongue or language not previously known.
Now, did these Jews from other nations need anything supernatural performed on them to understand the gospel that Peter, the apostles, and disciples were preaching? NO, they could understand the gospel JUST AS THEY WERE.
And we know these men were deeply convicted by Peter and the others' preaching and that over 3000 believed on Jesus that day.
We also know that none of these 3000 new believers received the Holy Spirit until AFTER they repented and believed on Jesus (because only believers are baptized).
Acts 2:38 Then Peter said unto them,
Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins,
and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
Now, you are a smart man, surely you recognize that Pentacost completely overthrows your Reformed view. It shows that unregnerate men can believe the gospel just as they are, and that when they believe they receive the Holy Spirit and are regenerated.
This does not deny the supernatural, because the gospel itself is a supernatural message from God, delivered by Spirit filled servants of his, just as is shown on the day of Pentacost.
Now, if you were a real Biblicist, you would give this argument of mine deep consideration, seeing it is based squarely on scripture. I did not twist or wrest anything, as there is absolutely no need to do so.
Think about it.