However, one is saved by grace thru faith and cannot become unsaved. Death and the grave have no part in the saved persons eternity. So speak to that "saved" part, then tell us how the soul is different and can suffer, as you say, "outer darkness, condemnation, destruction and punishment to name a few." I think that is where folks who don't understand your posts get confused. I am saved for eternity, but my soul is to suffer? Explain one, then the other, as briefly and uncomplicated as possible. I may have to shut down due to a thunderstorm, but I'll check back later today.
Well the first is easy to explain becuase it's the simplest message of the bible. A dead man in trespasses and sins (spiritually dead) needs to heed the gospel message that Jesus Christ, the Perfect Lamb of God, died and shed His blood on the cross of Calvary to pay the sin debt that we have. If one will believe that Christ died as their substitute they are saved (made alive spiritually).
This is solely based on the works of Christ alone, and therefore is never changing. The faith is a one-time event in the person's life and the matter is settled at that very moment for the rest of time, which will never end.
What happens after that is not as easy to explain, becuase it is really a complete understanding of Scripture from beginning to end that needs to take place.
But as simply as it can be put just like in Genesis 1 where God separates the light from the darkness, God separates the saved person's spirit (light) from their soul (darkness) (Hebrews 4:12).
God didn't do away with the darkness He just separated it from the light.
The mistake that a lot of Christendom makes is that they believe/teach that the moment of salvation a person becomes a completely new person that walks and talks and thinks like Christ. However that is not the case. We are born as babies and must be taught to walk and talk and think like Christ.
During this learning process there is also our old nature that is still around that doesn't want to learn to walk, talk and think like Christ, it wants to continue to live the way it has always lived.
One must die to self and allow the learning process to take place and continue.
The Bible says that if a person will lose his life (soul) in the here and now he will find it in the coming age (1,000-year reign of Christ). However the opposite is also true. If one continues to live their own life. Then they will lose their life (soul) in the coming age.
It is clearly and plainly taught throughout Scripture that there is a salvation that is past and there is a salvation that is working in the present and will be fully realized in the future.
The salvation in the past is exactly that in the past. Done deal. The matter never to be discussed again. However there is a salvation that must currently be sought in the present and it must be sought after and work done throughout this lifetime or until the return of Christ to be realized.
It can be obtained and it can be forfeited.
Now as to how that works out after the judgment seat of Christ I am not exactly sure, because we just aren't told in great detail. But we are given enough Truth about the matter to know we don't want to experience it no matter how it plays out, because it's not going to be a pretty sight. And we should be focusing on doing what we are called to do, not focusing on what will happen to us in detail if we don't do it.
Now outer darkness where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth has to do with deep grief and remorse. And that can be seen in the OT picture of Esau who was deeply troubled that he missed out on the blessing of his inhertiance, because he sold it for a bowl of soup.
Destruction seems to have to do with a person's will and desires being done away with finally by God, because they didn't want to go through the process in this lifetime.
Condemnation means we are going to have to pay up some day. The famous pay day some day line would be appropriate here. If anyone thinks they are going to get away with living a life of disobedience and unfaithfulness they are fooling themselves.
Hope that helps clarify a bit more.