There is no conundrum. You are desperately looking for one, however.
Our King is Jesus. When a subordinate governor tells us to do something against the will of our King, we must obey God rather than men. Peter and John teach us this truth when they answer to the Sanhedrin in the book of Acts.
There is nothing in the US that gives us license to call for secession from the union of States. That is what this thread is discussing. Any Christian advocating secession is advocating treason and is thus fighting against God's ordained leadership in the US.
Didn't address anything I said LOL.
Have a nice day.