Maybe the 13th time will get through to you.
John 20:31 But these are written, that ye might believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God; and that believing ye might have life through his name.
This verse easily teaches you have to believe to have life.
Calvinism teaches that a person must be regenerated to believe. And you define regeneration as being born again, having spiritual life.
Well, you can't have spiritual life while you are still dead in your sins, and until you trust Christ you are dead in your sins.
You have not refuted this whatsoever.
I'll ask you this simple question, does regeneration mean spiritual life??
One more time and I'll see if you respond.
Believing is necessary for continued life. It is necessary for the maintenance of life. There is not a Calvinist on earth who thinks that believing is not essential to life.
But believing does not start the life.
It is like this:
A baby lives before it breathes but it must breath to continue to live. The baby's life is contingent upon breathing but it does not exist BEFORE life. The baby lived in its mother's womb for a long time before it ever breathed.
The verse could read like this: You were born that you might breath and that breathing you might have life. Does that mean that breathing PRECEDED life? No. It just means that breathing is necessary for life to continue.
These things are written that you might believe and that believing ye might have life. Does believing of necessity PRECEDE life here? NO. No more than breathing necessarily precedes life.