That's not what single predestination proposes - there is nobody capable of changing their mind by themselves. When God is viewed as offering salvation, it's Him doing the same supernatural work of giving a new heart and His Spirit to the non-elect, enlightening them (Heb 6:4) with the truth of Christ (Heb 10:26) and leading them to repentance (Heb 6:6) and showing them the way of righteousness (2Pet 2:21). The only difference in such cases lies in which nature is operative in the elect and non-elect - God's Spirit or the self/flesh - in making them persevere to walk in this free gift without falling away. Refer
Post #70 too for the comparison.
2 points here - Firstly, God's sovereignty is not robbed if it
is His Sovereign purpose to want the non-elect to be permitted self-determinism to contrast His ways with the creatures' as shown in the above Post#70 reference. Secondly, the very concept of faith negates any self-glorification, even in the non-elect, as elaborated in
Post #113.
I too don't want this to be a matter of what we prefer personally - but am trying to reconcile all of Scriptures. The starting point for me upholding Single Predestination is in God revealing His conditional desire that
all repent and live, which would be in direct contradiction to a predestined decree of His for them to be condemned.
Since it is by grace that you are saved by faith and this is not of yourselves it is the gift of God, then any salvation of a person is all done by God. Jesus also says those who come to the light , the works they do are done in God so not of themselves.
But these wicked, do not come to the light. They just do not do so because they do evil things and they hate the light, which would be Christ. We are back to the enmity of the carnally minded evil doers who can not be submitted to God's laws.
And these wicked evil doers are condemned already, like it is just not going to change for them by anything they can do, they are what they are, unless God changes their heart by giving them a new spirit. A man must be born again before he will believe in Christ, otherwise they do not have the love of God in them, as they are not of God. And Jesus said those who are not 'of God' do not hear God. I would say not only do they not hear as in hearken and obey, God is not even speaking to them.
Because faith comes by hearing ,and hearing by the word of God, so faith comes by hearing God speak, and they do not hear because they are not of God.
And God's work is that you believe in Christ, and God does not fail in what He does.
Whether God wants them to believe matters not, as they never will, even though God commands all men everywhere to repent and believe in Christ, they can not do so, because they do evil.
John 3
18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
And I half expect my posts to suddenly go poof!, so I figure a few people will get to read what I just wrote.