Originally posted by rbell:
AVL,
my friend, there's a whole lot of stuff in this world more likely to tick me off than a BB thread...water off a duck's back here.
God's on His throne, my church is absolutely rockin', and folks are coming to Jesus. I couldn't be happier. So whether you respond to my questions or not, I'm cool either way...
I will restate a question you didn't address: if the SBC is so reprobate, liberal, and beyond any form of redemption...why were you in it for the past four years?
My wife and I went to the SBC in 2002 because of the abuses of a hyperfundamentalist IFB church. God used the SBC to help my wife and I have some time to heal, recover, and He ended up bringing us "Full Circle", which is the name of a book that I'm working on. It was during my time in the SBC that I questioned the teachings of the Ind. Fundy Bapt churches and why I believed what I believed, if I believed anything at all, or was just brainwashed into believeing some extra-biblical doctrines.
During our time in the SBC, we attended a very convservative SBC church. But, some events in the church started leading that church down the road to more liberal positions, and many of the people who were so-called fundamentalists were attacked and eventually chased away from their positions of leadership and staff in the church. Things continued to get worse in the church, and we had a minor split just after the building program was completed. Since we had moved out of town and the church was so far away, we joined a small country church (SBC...both were, not the other faction that split as you and the other brother have tried to imply several times). After several months in the church, events took place which gave a deacon more power, and the balance in the church turned. We were gone for six weeks because of my mother in laws hospitalization from a fall in her home, her hospitalization, diagnosis of terminal lung cancer (they gave her 45 days to live) and then her death. We were there for the funeral and some other legal matters, and when we came back at the end of the six weeks, we walked into a war in the church. The deacon had gained a majority of the control in the church and there was a major vote that evening on the changing of the church by-laws and constitution. The deacon packed the church, and his side won. The pastor and assistant left the church, and I was left as interim of the church. After three weeks, I was led out of there, praise the Lord! These people wanted to follow the deacon more than the Bible. We ended up with those who had split in forming a new church.
In the first few weeks and months, the new church was on the right track. But, our pastor started taking it down a road that wasn't Biblical. He later resigned, leaving the associate pastor, who was of a Charismatic/Pentecostal background as pastor. I was a non-staff preacher for the church because of it's size. This church started going down the apostolic/charismatic road, they adopted a constitution and bylaws that would have allowed divorced pastors, single pastors and in some cases women pastors. I had been on the constitution and bylaw committee. But, I was the only Fundamentalist on the committee. When I missed a meeting because of an illness in the family, before the document was presented to the church for confirmation as the one that they wanted to adopt, it had been changed to what I stated above.
They wanted to adopt "private prayer language" positions, and we didn't find that as scriptural, nor did several others who debated all the above items. At any rate, because we felt the church could be educated and possibly turn around, we stayed. The Lord hadn't told us to go yet. Plus, though we had voted to become SBC, we had no sponsor church to present us for membership, and were essentially an independent Baptist Church. We had recommended that they stay that way from the beginning, and knowing that it would take time to be sponsored, etc., and brought into the convention, we stayed. But, when the church took the leanings that were mentioned above, we knew it was time to leave, and the Lord opened the door for us to do so. Three to four weeks later, the church went defunct when the pastor resigned.
We had been visiting around in IFB churches for several weeks, and started attending Victory, and will probably be joining there in a few weeks.