<BLOCKQUOTE>quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by katie:
We have a handshaking time during our service also. When we were new at church, I had never even been to church as an adult and I was 27 then, I was extremely shy, to the point of just not talking to people because of fear. When everyone shook hands, and even shook ours, it made me feel so good, and accepted. Like I had a place to belong. It was important, and now I feel that it's important to others, to feel welcomed, and wanted. And thats part of the ministry we are to do, welcome others, let them know they have found a place to belong with God. It is stepping out of our own personal space sharing that with others. Opening ourselves up to others. And for me it has been a time of peace and healing these past 8 months with all the hugs and love I've recieved, poeple crying with me, at church. Now thats ministry. And if sharing of love for fellow believers, or those seeking isn't part of worship, following God, then what is it.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
Katie - If all the hand-shaking and hugging is a structured part of the service, then it is merely ritualistic. If people greet one another in the parking lot or as they are making their way from Sunday school to worship service,stopping to introduce themselves and welcoming one another spontaneously, then it is more likely that those greetings are genuine and heart-felt. Also, when you are focused on those around you, as in the "run around and greet everyone" portion of the worship service, your attention is not on God. Who did you come to worship, fellow believers or God?