In his autobiography (vol.1, p. 260), Spurgeon recounts sitting, in his younger days, with some ministers and other of a Hyper persuasion, 'who were disputing whether it was a sin in men that they did not believe the Gospel. Whilst they were discussing, I said, "Gentlemen, am I in the presence of Christians? Are you believers in the Bible or are you not?" They said, "We are Christians, of course." "Then," said I, "does not the Scripture say, 'of sin, because they believe not on Me?' And is not the damning sin in men, that they do not believe on Christ?"'
In his preface to the Metropolitan Tabernacle Pulpit for 1863, he made an open appeal to those whom he described as 'led captive by ultra-calvinistic theories,' calling on them to 'preach the whole Gospel, instead of a part': 'Divine sovereignty is a great and indisputable fact, but human responsibility is quite as indisputable... Faith is God's gift, but it is also the act of renewed mankind. damnation is the result of justice, not of arbitrary predestination. Oh that the time were come when seeming opposites would be received, because faith knows that they are portions of one harmonious whole. Would that an enlarged view of the dispensations of God to man would permit men to be faithful to the human race and at the same time true to the Sovereign Lord of all.' [MTP, vol. 9, pp.vi-vii]
Spurgeon also spoke of the religion of a man who preaches divine sovereignty but neglects human responsibility: 'I believe it is a vicious, immoral and corrupt manner of setting forth doctrine, and cannot be of God' [MTP, vol. 9, p.150]
To those who rejected Christ, Spurgeon made it clear that they were doing so wilfully. 'Oh, my hearers, will any man choose for himself to be lost? Will he count himself unworthy of eternal life, and put it from him? If you will be damned you must do it yourselves. Your blood be on your own heads. Go down to the pit if you deliberately choose to do so; but this know, that Christ was preached to you and you would not have him; you were invited to come to Him, but you turned your backs on Him; you chose for yourselves your own eternal destruction! God grant that you may repent of such a choice, for Christ's sake. Amen [MTP, vol. 27, p.480]