Bro. Williams, in principle I agree with you. Thanks for the compelling insight.
Tom Butler said:
I'm assuming that you didn't quit giving, although I see you have no home church to give to by your profile.
Unfotunately, no, I don't currently have one. I just moved to a new area and I'm "trying out" a couple.
How do you decide what to give? Is there some sort of formula? The more you have the more you give, and vice versa? Or is it based on a feeling? Or what?
Yes. And no.

Actually, I decide based on a compilation of things: disposable income present, feelings, urgency of need, etc. In other words, it's like when I discriminate against which missionaries to support. (Since I'm assuming ALL of us have to do this.) How do you pick who gets help and who doesn't? While I would like to pretend the process is as scientific as, say, an equation, it just isn't. My finite resources demand that I do discriminate at some point and I pretty much strike up a compromise between all factors at hand. Again, not nearly as cut-and-dry as tithing, I know. But for me (at least) it's a more human way of giving. Operative phrase being, "for me."
Where is your giving in your priority list. First thing, or whatever's left after the bills are paid?
I respect where you're coming from here. I admire your heart to keep God's things just that. But I equate (and I think with ample more Scriptural evidence) that paying one's bills is one of the most spiritual means of spending money. So it isn't like I believe God expects me to choose between doing right vs. doing right.

Again, I admire your love for God. It's warming.
Is it possible to give nothing (even though you're able) and still be pleasing to God? Is it possible to please God with your giving, but gradually reduce giving to the point where God is no longer pleased? If yes, where do you think that point is?
I think it is possible to displease God with our giving. And with our prayer life. But I don't think prayer should be viewed as a timed quota. I also think I can disappoint God with my Bible reading but I'm still not comfortable making that a rigidly structured process either. Pardon the redundant, sappy phraseology but it's a relationship
thang.
If you joined a local civic club,would you have the same attitude toward the mandatory dues as you have toward the tithe?
<bolding mine> I don't feel tithing is mandatory. But, no, I would not balk at mandatory dues if I knowingly incurred them.
These questions may sound antagonistic.
I haven't interpreted anything you said as antagonistic. I see someone who sincerely loves the Lord and sincerely disagrees. No need for the disclaimer and by all means keep the dialogue coming!
Just wanted to make sure where your heart is in this matter.
Thank you.