Acts 13:9 Then Saul, (who also is called Paul,) filled with the Holy Ghost, set his eyes on him . . .
Why mention "filled with the Holy Ghost" here and not in every act of Paul since Ananias laid hands on him? Did Paul's submission fluctuate? Was he extraordinarily obedient in this case as compared to the others? Maybe he was a baritone virtuoso singing psalms and hymns.
So again: When the Scriptures speak of Christ, Stephen and Peter being "full of the Holy Ghost" (Christ, after 40 days of fasting and intense temptation, Peter when preaching after performing a miracle, and Stephen when being martyred), they are describing extraordinary events and manifestations. Until we agree on that point, there's no need to discuss it any further.
Again, the biblical facts repudiate your whole line of reasoning. The "baptism" in the Spirit is found in every instance prior to Pentecost in the future tense whereas "filled' and "full" are found prior to Pentecost. That destroys your whole theory.
Second, you are so narrow minded that you refuse to see that "filling" thus being "full" of the Spirit is not limited to just manifest "power" but can be equally applied to manifest "fruit" of the Spirit and leadership by the Spirit.