I really feel that I need to add my two cents worth here.
Before my church started falling apart, I was the adult Sunday school teacher. I was requested by the pastor to take this position so the he could concentrate on the Sunday and Wednesday night services. He never said why he didn't ask our deacon to take this resposibility and I didn't ask, I prayed about it for a long time before agreeing and only after I felt sure in my heart that this was the path that God wanted me to follow.
(As I mentioned before, the problems at my church would require an entire thread of thier own, so I will not get into that here. I will only say that I have, (again after many prayers and tears), resigned my post to my great sorrow.)
I have read the other posts that speak against SS, and all I can is: if that is the way that God moves you, then fine. I happen to believe in SS for the reason mentioned in other posts, that there are many children who do not come from a Christian home, just as there are many adults who are currently in mixed marriages, (one saved / one not), where bringing out a bible will cause more trouble than leaving an hour early to come to the church.
During my classes, we did not do prayer requests. These were reserved for Wednesday nights when the majority of people were members, not visitors. The time alloted for my class, about 40 minutes, was taken in prayer and the lesson. On Wed. the requests were serious: the sick, lost friends and family, those traveling, ect. NEVER would any of us, (members, deacon, or pastor), would tolorate childish, selfish prayer requests that were made to glorify the individual.
SS classes, bible study, and services should all be taken in the spirit in which they were intended, with humility and a sober mind. These are times that we should seek to draw closer to God through His Word. It is not a time to stand up and brag, to to seek sympathy from others, ( that is something Jesus spoke out against again and again).
The fact that people are allowed to make requests for drapes or carpet, says more about the spirit in that church than anything. I think it's time that someone called for a revivial, not of the church, but of the spirit.
Satan has been allowed a foot hold in the membership and he will use it to drive a wedge right through the very heart of the people.
I will keep you and your church in my prayers,
your brother in Christ:
Greg