Now I got it! Well, Christ telling us, we must forake father or mother, or sister, or brother, or friend, or anything, come and to follow Christ. Also, if we love father or mother, or brother or sister or anything more than Jesus, then I am not worthy to Jesus's disciple. Notice Matt. 19:29 tells us very clear,- "And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sister, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive a hundredfold, AND SHALL INHERIT EVERLASTING LIFE." A person who want to have everlasting life, then surrender life to Jesus, and come to follow Him, then shall have eternal life. Believing, repent, and faith, all are go together with surrender. We know that Jesus is the Lord. Lord means master well as "boss". Christ tells us, we cannot serve two masters same time - Jesus and world. We must choose one master at once. Today, too many Christians are compromising with world while serve the Lord at same time. They are not actual follow Christ right. Notice next verse - Matt. 19:30 , Christ said, "But many that are first shall be last, and the last shall be first." This is the picture of being humble before God with right attitude. Notice many rich people are filled with pride, of being thinking theirselves, not think of Jesus and others, they are being "first", but they will be last. Otherwise, in another passage, Christ said, many were called, but few are chosen. Where are the "many"? Sadly, they make choice going in their own ways which they are on "wide road" of Matt. 7:13, looking for easy life than hard life. Obivously, salvation is conditional, that we must have faith, believing, trust, follow, and also, obey too. "Take up cross" is not easy. Many people think getting saved is easy. That is called, "Easy Believism", by just 'believed' in Jesus then saved, that's it, do nothing for Lord. Is that person actual saved? No. But, many people did actual repented of sins, did called upon Christ, did followed Christ at the beginning. But, somehow, they turn away from the Lord, return to world again, showing that they 'DROPPED" the cross on the floor not want to follow Christ anymore. Therefore, they are not saved at the end. Most of them easily quit and back to world again. There are actual FEW of people who are truly faithful follow Christ throughout life to end(at death) are the "chosen", then they receive eternal life. -Matt. 10:22; & Matt. 24:13. You may accuse me that I believe salvation is "good works", fine with me. No. Getting salvation is not "work", it is about about faith. "Take up cross" is costly and willing of our life with obedience. Obivious, "take up cross" doesn't sound to me, it is unconditional security salvation doctrine. I used to believe in unconditional security salvation doctrine for many years. Till in year 2002, I was no longer believe in it. Because, I can easily see too many conditionals throughout from Genesis to Revelation. Clearly, the Bible does teaching us that salvation is conditional that we must meet: - believe, repent of sins, confession of sins, to be baptize, separate from world, obey, follow, serve Him, etc. If we do not meet these, then, we shall not have eternal life at the end. That what the Bible is clear teaching us. In Christ Rev. 22:20 -Amen!