Putting something in context means more than completing the sentence.
However, the entire passage has been quoted on the wine threads, and to no avail.
If you look earlier in Proverbs 23 you will see
Do not join those who drink too much wine
or gorge themselves on meat,
for drunkards and gluttons become poor,
and drowsiness clothes them in rags.
note the "too much"
note the "gorge"
They are related to "drunkards" and "gluttons", respectively.
There is no prohibition against either eating meat or drinking wine in the above. There is a warning against too much of either.
Later on in chapter 23 is the verse so often quoted: "Do not gaze at the wine when it is red, when it smarkles in the cup, when it goes down smoothly!"
What is right before that?
This: Who has woe? Who has sorrow?
Who has strife? Who has complaints?
Who has needless bruises? Who has bloodshot eyes?
Those who linger over wine,
who go to sample bowls of mixed wine.
ah, it's the lingering and the repeated tasting which is warned against. And note: it is only a warning. Solomon is not writing the law there. Proverbs is called a book of wisdom, not a book of law. Therefore, just as an aside here, even getting drunk is not a sin, for it transgresses no law. It is just a foolish, stupid thing to do. It is not wise.
Now let's get back to Proverbs 23, and the verses after the one so often quoted:
Your eyes will see strange sights
and your mind imagine confusing things.
This is a state of drunkenness, which is definitely NOT after one glass of wine!
You will be like one sleeping on the high sees,
lying on top of the rigging.
You will be violently sick to your stomach. That is not the result of a glass of wine, but of drunkeness.
"They hit me," you will say, "but I'm not hurt!
They beat me, but I don't feel it!
When will I wake up so I can find another drink?"
The lack of sensation is the result of a very high alcohol level, not of a glass of wine. And the last line says it all -- this person is a confirmed alcoholic, thinking only of where the next drink will come from.
This is a far, far cry from the right and proper use of wine. Biblically, it makes the heart glad, or did you conveniently forget that verse? It helps heal stomach ulcers, or did you ignore that (grape juice would only make the ulcer worse)? Jesus was called a drunkard, or winebibber, not because He had fruit juice, but because He had -- and made miraculously -- wine.
I fully respect those, like my beloved husband, who choose to never partake an alcoholic beverage. But he also knows this is not a biblical imperative; it is a choice. For him, being a porphyriac, it was a God-led choice he made years before he knew of the disorder. For him, alcohol could lead to an acute phase which could leave him paralyzed.
He respect me, and I have a glass of wine occasionally. He has bought it for me and poured it for me.
Now, I do believe that the Bible says that it is God's kindness which leads people to repentance (if repentance is needed...). That's at the beginning of Romans 2. In John 16:8, Jesus says it is the Holy Spirit who is to convict of guilt regarding sin. So I would ask those of you who cannot seem to stop condemning and even damning folk who have a glass of wine occasionally to please consider that you may be trying to take over the Holy Spirit's function. He may not like that.