1) First, if faith in Christ is instilled via irresistible grace, we are saved by grace and given faith. Not how it reads.
Really? How do you read the following:
"For by grace are ye saved through faith AND THAT NOT OF YOURSELVES, IT IS GIFT OF GOD, not of works, lest any man should boast" - Eph. 2:8
If salvation is "through faith" then Paul is referring to the whole phrase "by grace are ye saved through faith" when he says "and that not of yourselves, it is a gift of God."
Jesus says that he is the "author" but you claim that man is the author of faith - Heb. 12:2. If Jesus is the author then faith is the work of God as Jesus says - Jn. 6:29. If Jesus is correct that "no man can come to me" then faith must originate from some other source than man - Jn. 6:44. If Jesus is correct that those who did "not believe" and thus no man can come to him by faith unless it is given unto by the Father (Jn. 6:64-65) then faith must be "by grace" thus making salvation sure to all the promised seed (Rom. 4:16).
3) Romans 10:17 says faith comes from hearing, not from irresistible grace.
Really? You, Winman and Skandelon have been corrected so many times on the abuse of this verse that it is hard to believe you still abuse it? The Greek term translated "word" is RHEMA not "logos" and RHEMA means WORD OF COMMAND just as Paul says in 2 Cor. 4:6:
6 For God, who commanded the light to shine out of darkness, has shined in our hearts, to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.
This is the creative word and work of God alone within the heart! The preacher may bring the gosepl TO sinners but only God can create in the heart the "substance" (Heb. 11:1) of faith or "the light of KNOWLEDGE of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ."
Where was any instrumentality in Genesis 1:2-3 when God simply spoke into existence light? He did merely by His WORD OF COMMAND or RHEMA!
Finally, Paul says concerning all who are "in the flesh" that they "CANNOT" please God (Rom. 8:8) and Paul claims that coming to God in faith is the MINIMAL requirement to please God (Heb. 11:6). Thus Paul says that the lost man "CANNOT" come to God in faith but you say he can. Now, who do you think we should believe? You or Paul?