Why do you think that? At the second appearing we will not be absent from our body. 2 Corinthians 5:6, "Therefore we are always confident, knowing that, whilst we are at home in the body, we are absent from the Lord: . . ."
2 Cor 5:1-4 For we know that if our earthly house of
this tabernacle (This is the body we were born, of our mother. Dirt) were dissolved, we have a building of God, an house not made with hands, (This is the body God will give us. The body we groan, for) eternal in the heavens. For in this we groan, earnestly desiring to be clothed upon with our house which is from heaven: If so be that being clothed we shall not be found naked.(That would to be without either) For we that are in
this tabernacle do groan, being burdened: not for that we would be unclothed, but clothed upon, that mortality might be swallowed up of life. (Again, groaning for life in body incorruptible. Immortality.)
Jesus came in an earthly house of tabernacle, died, and was raised out of death, to life, in a house no more to return to corruption and to die no more. Romans 6:9 Acts 13:34 Knowing that Christ being raised from the dead dieth no more;
death hath no more dominion over him. And as concerning that he raised him up from the dead,
now no more to return to corruption, he said on this wise, I will give you the sure mercies of David.
2 Cor 5:6 Now he that hath
wrought us for the selfsame thing is God, who also hath given unto us the earnest of the Spirit.
This passage begins back in Chapter 4. It is about the resurrection.
Now lets consider us having the earnest of the Spirit relative to receiving the self same thing. Notice these having the earnest of the Spirit groan. Where else do we see this same groaning relative to the Spirit and what is being groaned for?. Romans 8:23 And not only
they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves
groan within ourselves,
waiting for the adoption,
to wit, the redemption of our body.
This passage in 2 Cor 5 relative to being with the Lord is the exact time frame as 2 Thes 4:13-18, and it takes place at the coming of the Lord and the resurrection of those who are Christ's at the redemption of the body, the redemption of the purchased possession of Eph 1:14 When we will be glorified with Christ Phil 3:20, 21 For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
That is when one will be with the Lord.
That is when the gates of Hades have not prevailed.