The only thing I could suggest, Pastor Bob, is to remind her that God knows exactly how she feels because he lost his son to an earthly death too.
The news last night said that 6 people die every day of the year in swimming pools in America. That's no help to this lady but might help later, WHEN she begins to blame herself.
I think it's wonderful you were there and I agree with Jim1999. She's going to need you when everyone else has 'gotten over this' and she's facing life without her child.
God Bless,
Diane
Six people drown in U.S. pools every day. Many of these pools are public facilities staffed with certified professional lifeguards.
Centers for Disease Control
Drowning is the 4th leading cause of accidental death in the United States, claiming 4,000 lives annually. Approximately one-third are children under the age of 14.
American Institute for Preventive Medicine
Drowning is the second-leading cause of unintentional, injury-related death among children under the age of 15.
Youth Drownings
A child can drown in the time it takes to answer a phone.
U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission
19% of drowning deaths involving children occur in public pools with certified lifeguards present.
Drowning Prevention Foundation
A swimming pool is 14 times more likely than a motor vehicle to be involved in the death of a child age 4 and under.
Orange County California Fire Authority
Children under five and adolescents between the ages of 15-24 have the highest drowning rates.
American Academy of Pediatrics
For every child who drowns, four are hospitalized for near drowning.
American Academy of Pediatrics
An estimated 5,000 children ages 14 and under are hospitalized due to near-drownings each year; 15 percent die in the hospital and as many as 20 percent suffer severe, permanent neurological disability.
Foundation for Aquatic Injury Prevention
Of all preschoolers who drown, 70 percent are in the care of one or both parents at the time of the drowning and 75 percent are missing from sight for five minutes or less.
Orange County, CA, Fire Authority
In 10 states - Alaska, Arizona, California, Florida, Hawaii, Montana, Nevada, Oregon, Utah and Washington - drowning surpasses all other causes of death to children age 14 and under.
Orange County, CA, Fire Authority