Originally posted by bapmom:
Sooooo, now we have 8 pages all dedicated to "bashing" one pastor of a church? How is that any better than him bashing in the screen of a TV in his own church on his own time in front of a congregation which is in his church by their own choice?
Bapmom, I disagree with your assessment. Much of these 8 pages were banter...folks having fun about the "Bert & Ernie" stuff.
Remember...this guy put this sermon on the internet. It's public. Theatrics like his little stunt give those of us who DO preach against sin but don't do it stupidly a bad name. My labeling his stunt as stupid behavior (which it was) is in no way is comparable to what he did.
I said it before...much of his sermon (I listened to all of it) I found myself in agreement to, in principle. The TV does carry an unprecedented amount of trashy programming. We have seen moral decay in that realm. And responsible Christian parents should monitor and control what their kids are watching (as well as teach them discernment).
But...His word choices ("faggot" and other such crude, inappropriate words) were terrible, and his sermon contained a ton of factual errors. Responsible ministers check their sources and don't preach using hearsay, rumor, or urban legend.
My consternation was reserved, however, for his VIOLENT outburst. Not just the outburst itself (which was a dumb idea), but if you'll remember he said, "So, if your wife or kids ask you, 'why do we need to get rid of the TV?'" and then he commenced immediately into his shenanigans. His destroying the TV was IN HIS WORDS a response to his family's questions!
So, is that how a Christian husband and father should respond to a wife or kid that is questioning them about an issue...with destructive force? This caused me to worry on two fronts:
(1) This guy's attitude and actions will attract abusive, autocratic men (who lord over their families) to this church.
(2) Does this guy treat HIS family like that? I think that when you put your sermon on the World Wide Web, and their are behaviors like that displayed, it's a valid question.
Please don't get me wrong. We have six channels on our TV's at home. Our kids don't, and won't, have TV's in their rooms. I would support someone who feels led to ditch the TV. But in ministry, it's not just what we do...it's how we do it...the attitude and manner in which we carry out these things--that matter a bunch.
Also, not everyone in his church may be there by choice, bapmom. There are probably kids there (and maybe even wives) who HAVE to be there. What about them? I've cleaned up too many messes caused by legalistic, pharasaical parents who hammer rules but forget relationships. Two outcomes are predominant:
(1) The kids exposed to this become a little disciple of this kind of attitude; or
(2) Out and out rebellion takes place.
I feel that this guy's actions are worth discussing. He put them out there publicly...and, as usual, he "posts and runs."