The problem highlighted in this discussion is not unique to the topic. Often it depends on how people understand what is being taught. Many timrs those who disagree with "begotten", "light from light" etc. disagree because they define the words differently than those who affirm the teaching.There are three or four views for the Biblical Trinity. And their differences are regarding the Sonship of the Word.
"Lordship Salvation" is a good second example. Those who disagree with the doctrine define "lordship" differently (often as a works-based mode), but those who hold the doctrine define "lordship" as Christ being Lord even when the believer is disobedient.
We also see this with "free-will" debates. Calvinists typically define "free-will" as libertarian free-will while those who hold a free-will theology define free-will as volition.