So you would disagree against BOTH Cals/Arms that man IS depraived and dead to being able to respond in faith to Gospel!
We have gone through this merry-go-round before. What is "dead"? It is not lifeless or a spiritual lifeless corpse. It is separation from God. Adam was dead and continued to talk with God. Yes a person is able to respond to God. God gave the command: "Seek ye the Lord while he yet may be found." He doesn't give a command that cannot be obeyed.
Secondly, it is the Holy Spirit that opens the heart. He convicts the sinner of his sin. He prepares the soil.
Thirdly, what does the Bible say about faith. "Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God. It is not a gift of God. It comes by being convinced that the message of the word of God--the gospel. that Christ has personally paid the penalty for one's sin, is true. Based on hearing that message and receiving it by faith he can be saved. But he must hear it, and accept it by faith--the confidence that it is true and able to do what it says it will do. God doesn't give him the faith. He must have the faith that the message is true. Faith comes from hearing and hearing by the Word of God.
The Calvinist believes that God comes along with a hypodermic needle and injects faith in a person that enables him to believe. Total nonsense. Man does not believe with God's faith. Never does the Bible teach that.
The Calvinist believes that the Holy Spirit comes along and sprinkles pixie dust upon a person so that he is magically regenerated. The Bible does not teach this either. This is new age, esoteric, metaphysical, nonsense.
Both would affirm that its not JUST the Gospel that saves us, its that FITST God has to "Grace allow" us "ears to hear" and than be able to respond in faith...
Wrong. The grace is the grace that God provided at the cross. It is not the graces of the RCC provided through the sacraments or some other such thing. The only grace we know of comes through the Word of God where Christ is described to us--his death, burial, resurrection; his sufferings; atonement; what he did for us. That is the grace that we need to know about. What grace are you speaking about? Some metaphysical working that comes through baptism or confirmation? Nonsense. God works through the Word of God as the Holy Spirit uses it.
Call it "irresistable Grace" call it "Prevelient grace" It happens BEFORE the Gospel message!
Acts 7:51. Grace can be resisted.
People have sat under the sound of the gospel and resisted the Holy Spirit and and time again.
If it happens before the hearing of the Word of God, then it is paganism.
God works through his word.
1Pet.1:23 We are born again by the Word of God.