Sopranette said:
For the people here who are not Baptists, what are some of the things you find to be limiting as far as being a Baptist goes? I'd be very interested in finding out. Thanks!
love,
Sopranette
I'm not sure if this is exactly what you are asking for, but here goes:
My wife and I were both raised in Baptist churches. She always went to a small, independent Baptist church, and I always went to a Southern Baptist church.
We now attend a Pentecostal church, mainly because we enjoy the worship services more.
I know that you can't say that all Baptist Churches are like this, or that all Pentecostal churches are like that, but, in our experience, here are the differences we have found based on the churches we have visited:
In most Baptist churches we have attended, most folks sit around looking like they've just bit into a lemon. They keep looking at their watch, like they are just daring the preacher to keep them past 12:00. Some sleep. Most simply seem bored. In most Pentecostal churches we have attended, the people seem truly happy to be at church, like they would rather be there than anywhere else.
In most Baptist churches we have attended, everyone is a spectator only. They watch the choir worship in song. They listen to someone else pray. In most Pentecostal churches we have attended, more people actually participate in worship and in prayer.
In the Pentecostal churches we have attended, while the music is going on, people may stand, raise their hands, and worship the Lord, sometimes for quite a while. In most Baptist churches we have attended, you would be made to feel very uncomfortable if you did this.
I like the fact that, in the Pentecostal churches we have attended, the congregation prays corporately, meaning everyone (who wants to) prays out loud, together. This encourages me to actually pray, instead of listening to someone else pray. I've heard some on this board making fun of the way some people at their church pray. If you're praying out loud while they are praying, you don't think about finding fault with the way they pray.
I tend to like the music better at the Pentecostal churches we have attended. I like the fact that it's okay to clap your hands with the music.
So, to answer your question, what I have found "limiting" at most of the Baptist churches I have attended is the lack of the freedom to worship in the manner that you feel led to worship.
At most Baptist churches I've been to, we've sang 3 dead songs, listened to some dead preaching, and then went home just as dead as when we came. At most of the Pentecostal churches I've been to, I've left knowing that I had been in the presence of the Lord.
Fortunately, I've visited enough Baptist churches to know that these stereotypes don't apply to all of them; just like the stereotypes many people here have of the Pentecostals...they don't all flop around in the aisle, jump off the pews, and stand up during the middle of the sermon and start speaking in tongues.
I still consider myself a Baptist at heart. And I love my Baptist Brothers and Sisters. I just prefer going to a Pentecostal church for the reasons mentioned above.
I may have misunderstood exactly what you meant by "limiting". If so, I apologize.