paul wassona said:
If all our requests are equally important, then what if some one is bitter and wants to ask God to kill somebody? Is God just as caring for that request as if somebody else asks prayer for the salvation of another? NO! God isn't this mechanical little box you can program. God is far more discerning. He tells us to be anxious for nothing. Supplication cannot be for wishing somebody dead and be equally important.
God gives one fo three answers to prayer... "yes", "no", and "wait a while". Obviously the answer to your first question would be "no" as it is up to God when a person dies and not us.
Funny thing is, though, He still wants us to tell Him that we want Him to kill that person. Why? Simple... God wants us to share our heart with Him. God is a big God and can handle such things. Some would say that is sacrilegious, but He already knows what is in our heart anyway so we aren't hiding it and would be lying if we didn't tell Him.
I have been in positions spiritually where I have literally shook my fists at heaven and God. No, He didn't strike me dead. Instead God let me rage and vent until I had no more, and then He wrapped his arms around me and told me that He still loved me and that He would take away my hurt and anger if I would give it to Him. Eventually I did give my pain to Him, but not immediately. Even then He still loved me and heard me and listened to my prayers. God is not a fragile something... He is Almighty God and can handle to rough stuff.
donnA said:
it must be pitiful living believing God doesn't care about our concerns
It actually is. Many think that they must come to God completely holy and only use "church talk". They never open their heart to God and share those things that are black and evil. God already knows about them, but these people think that if they keep these things back in a corner and pretend they aren't there that God won't notice them. It's rather sad, actually.
When I am spiritually burdened (like I am now), I fear being called on to lead prayer at church. It is so hard not to talk to God about the things that are weighing my heart down. I thank God that He has taught me how to be specific in prayer, to address only that which the current subject of the prayer asked for, such as for the offering or dismissing us from the church service. What I talk to God about is very private and personal, not something I would want to tell anyone else.