spiritual death- means not spiritually alive and unresponsive in spirit
physical death- means not physically alive and unresponsive in flesh
"For just as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, even so the Son also gives life to whom He wishes."
The comparison is that the same way God must raise people who are physically dead, He must raise people who are spiritually dead.
That is wrong. The scriptures show that the dead can respond to Jesus's voice. Look at the story of the young girl Jesus raised.
Luke 8:49 While he yet spake, there cometh one from the ruler of the synagogue's house, saying to him, Thy daughter is dead; trouble not the Master.
50 But when Jesus heard it, he answered him, saying, Fear not: believe only, and she shall be made whole.
51 And when he came into the house, he suffered no man to go in, save Peter, and James, and John, and the father and the mother of the maiden.
52 And all wept, and bewailed her: but he said, Weep not; she is not dead, but sleepeth.
53 And they laughed him to scorn, knowing that she was dead.
54 And he put them all out, and took her by the hand, and called, saying, Maid, arise.
55 And her spirit came again, and she arose straightway: and he commanded to give her meat.
56 And her parents were astonished: but he charged them that they should tell no man what was done.
Notice when Jesus called to the girl, it says "her spirit came again". It is showing action on the part of her spirit.
What you fail to understand is that death means separation. Her spirit had left her body. The scriptures say this.
James 2:26 For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.
When you die, your spirit does not cease to exist or even cease to function. It simply leaves the body. But the dead can hear, see, feel emotions and pain. When Jesus calls, a dead person can hear and respond.
The dead rich man in hell clearly had the ability to see, hear, understand, speak, reason and other abilities. Abraham did not have the ability to raise the rich man to life, but the rich man clearly heard Abraham and held a conversation with him.
Luke 16:23 And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments, and seeth Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom.
24 And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this flame.
25 But Abraham said, Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and likewise Lazarus evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented.
26 And beside all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed: so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot; neither can they pass to us, that would come from thence.
27 Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father's house:
Calvinism teaches that the spiritually dead are like a lifeless corpse. This is utterly false and the scriptures show so. They can see, speak, hear, think and all other functions.