Yes. A lot of needless argument goes on that would be tempered if we just agreed that the real problem is our wills. Outside of taking a theological position, it may well be that we should be able to hear the gospel and respond and in truth, we should be able to just decide to turn around, turn to God and stop sinning. But any halfway honest person knows their own track record on that and can observe the rest of mankind too. And the verdict is that we in reality don't do that, and we don't do that because we don't want to do that according to our own free will.
Dave I agree with what you said here " it may well be that we
should be able to hear the gospel and respond and in truth, we should be able to just decide to turn around, turn to God". Which we can do as we see clearly in scripture. Eph 1:13, Rom 10-9, Eph 2:8. Through our God given free will we can do all those things.
It is when you then add "and stop sinning" that you move beyond what is biblical. We find in scripture that we can and do continue to sin after we are saved and that is why we are to confess those sins. We freely sin and we can freely confess those sins. We do not loose the free will we have in coming to Christ.
1Jn 1:8
If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
1Jn 1:9
If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
1Jn 1:10
If we say we have not sinned, we make Him out to be a liar, and His word is not in us.
So I do agree that the problem is our wills. The question we must answer is are they free or are they determined.