For the record, my church is not SBC. It is an independent Reformed Baptist Church that subscribes to the 1689 Second London Baptist Confession of Faith.
Again, I am not SBC either. In addition to never ever seeing them in NJ, I would never ever be able to build unity with them .....I consider them ambiguous. I also am much more comfortable with the 1689 Because it helped me to understand when no Pastor was present.
As a sidebar question to MorseOp though, what is it that you recognize as Reformed v. Particular or Old School or Primitive Baptist? You can answer this privately if you prefer.