Hi Petrel! Its Barry here -Helen's husband. I am answering this while she fixes up an urgent problem with our retarded son.
I would point you to an interesting passage in Numbers 14. You will recall that the spies have come back from inspecting the Promised Land for 40 days and gave a discouraging report.From verse 10 onwards we have recorded a conversation of God with Moses and Moses' response. Basically God told Moses that He would make a greater and mightier nation from him, and destroy the Children of Israel. Moses argued against that, and God chose another course of action. From verse 22 onwards God outlines His new plan of action. The Israelites from 20 years old and upwards will perish in the wilderness. The young ones will come in to the Promised Land. God had changed His mind about what He would do to that immediate generation of rebels. He actually states as much in Numbers 14:34 where we find the following words: "After the number of days in which you searched the land, even forty days, each day for a year, you will bear your iniquities, even forty years, AND YOU SHALL KNOW MY BREACH OF PROMISE." That is the KJV. The NIV translators have not been faithful to the text and translate it as "You will suffer for your sins and know what it is like to have me against you." I looked up our Hebrew interlinear and it used the words "...and you will know My alienation against you." I then went to the actual word translated "Breach of Promise" or "alienation" and while alienation is legitimate it should be noted that the word derives from the root which means to neutralize, to break, to disallow, to make of no effect. In other words, what God is saying to the Israelites is that He has disallowed, broken, and made of no effect His original promise to them. God had clearly changed His mind and has admitted to it.
Helen here now. Thanks, Honey!
He is busy with the speeches he will be giving in Australia and NZ when we leave for them on Thursday.
So it is evident that God does -- at least from our point of view and from what He says there -- change His mind.
Does that make it bad?
The interesting thing is that it is NOT ours to judge!
The following is from an email from a friend of ours a while ago. He is a pastor:
To know good and evil is an idiomatic way of saying that one is able to render judgment on a matter. To say, "I don't know good or evil" is to say it's not up to me, it's not my call.
When Abraham's servant sought a wife for Isaac among Abraham's people, God led him to Rebekah, the graddaughter of Abraham's brother Laban. With regard to that request, Laban says in Gen. 24:50, "This is from the Lord; we cannot speak to you evil or good" (lit.). He doesn't mean he is speechless, but that God has given his decision so they are no longer free to exercise their own decision.
So really you have the tree of life and the tree of defying God's right to judge, which is the tree of death. These are the roads open to mankind: trust, obedience and life; OR distrust, disobedience, and death.
So while God can do anything He chooses to do, we cannot judge Him. He is, by nature, intrinsically good and therefore only what is against Him is bad. Thus He CANNOT make any wrong or bad decision by definition. This is not a matter of limitation, but a matter of definition.
God is free to change His mind if He wants to. And we are not to judge unless we want, also, to eat from the forbidden fruit.